whenever i try to talk to my mom she ignores me. shes always playing this online game and never talks to me. i walked over to her a few minutes ago becuz i was upset and i tried to talk to her and she ignored me. then i asked her if she was listening and she still ignored me. then i said fine ill guess ill just go, and she still ignored me. she always does this and i dont know what to do because i wanna talk to her and she acts like im not there. how can i get her to listen to me?
btw- i am 15 and me and my mom have our own computers and i have1 sibling but he is always working and i dont have a dad
2006-07-23 16:04:09 · 12 answers · asked by Kat+David=♥™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if i turned off the computer shed freak out and scream at me
2006-07-23 16:12:57 · update #1
hello. i think ur mom has problems. maybe she forgot she has parenting responsibilities. approach her again, and say "Mom, i need to talk to you. can you please give me a couple of minutes?" say it slowly and clearly. directly. if this does not work, set the house on fire. :)
p.s. Never give up trying to communicate with your mother. communication is very important. Never give up. Good luck to you.
2006-07-23 16:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jugglingmidget06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you and your mom have a good relationship? I mean me and my mom never got along sad 2 say but it was true. She was always ignorning me.. What i did 2 get her 2 listen 2 me was i just stayed away from her for a while and just let her be.. Is your mom depressed? I'm probably not helping you much but trying..I hope this helps some
2006-07-23 23:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by kim b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your mom and if she keeps ignoring you go to a guidence coulnsor as hard as that may seem you need to because after all your only 15 you need a mother who cares for you and knows what your up to because if not then sooner or later youll start pitting yourself. so hunny seriously first sit her down and ask her why shes always ignoring you and if that doesnt help then talk to a guidence counslor.
2006-07-23 23:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by piggystizzles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had an answer for you my dear,but you seem to be competing with a computer. You should be her first priority. The other person who said to send her an e-mail may have a good idea. Just say, Hey Mom,I love you and need you. Please talk to me.
2006-07-23 23:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by sumrtanman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do something drastic...like unplug her computer. Don't get involved in something that is bad for you to get her attention...get it in a positive way. Explain to her how you feel...she loves you, right? Tell her that you are losing her to her online games..and that you need her more than a computer does...seriously, pull the plug. Then duck :) Good luck.
2006-07-23 23:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by loubean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to check out this webpage and your thoughts should show, be kind to her but tell her you'd like to have her undivided attention and that trying to talk to her while she is playing games takes away from your needed time with her.
2006-07-23 23:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by Allen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeeze... um. if my brother ever did that to me when he was on the computer i would just turn the freaking thing off! (a good, inconspicuous way of doing so is standing by the moniter ever so casually...then you happen to apply some pressure to the power button... and oops! accident...)
2006-07-23 23:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by det.noraas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe, umm i guess you can just keep trying, or try to talk to her when shes not on the computer. or tell her you really need to talk to her and that it is important or somthing.
2006-07-23 23:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont talk to her then later on in life she will lok bac and say dat she never knew her onw kids.
2006-07-23 23:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to her. Slam a pie or something in her face
2006-07-23 23:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by bhcky79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋