when u think of a person like 25/8 as in everyday u think of that person(like my crush) does that mean i love him... it happens to be that im at the 8th grade and my mother wants me to tranfer to an exclusive girl's school. i dont want to beco'z of my crush... everynyt i cry beco'z of that tranferring thingie.. i really dont want to transfer.. i was worrying that i won't see him again..im afraid to lose him.. [even though he does'nt know that i hve a crush on him] pls.. help!!
2006-07-23 15:49:41 · 19 answers · asked by Vhan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM gonna risk my studies beco'z of him..
2006-07-23 15:51:43 · update #1
do all this means i love him???
2006-07-23 15:53:53 · update #2
is risking my education right??
2006-07-23 16:03:09 · update #3
ammm in my country 8th grade is 2nd yr. highschool,,,
2006-07-23 16:12:28 · update #4
first u need to ask him if he feels the same way bout u but u should never let a guy get in the way of your future especially if hes only a crush but if u have alot of good friends then thats a good reason to stay and in that way u could try to pursue a relationship
2006-07-23 15:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok first of all I wouldnt risk my studies for anyone. Second your in the 8th grade. I had 3 different g/f in the 8th grade. Just wait until you hit high school and then your really going to be confused because of all the choices you'll have then. Right now just tell him how you feel and let him know what is going on. If he feels the same about you then there is always a phone of internet, hang out with him on the weekends. There is always a way to see him even if you get transfered to another school.
2006-07-23 22:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by stampedefocus2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the new school. Concentrate on your studies. There are so many more boys and men that you will have a crush on. If you want to keep in touch with this young man, maybe strike up a friendship. Email, phone, see him occasionally, but your first priority right now should be on your school work! By the way, you can't lose someone you don't have!
2006-07-23 22:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in 8th grade so that what makes you 12/13 yrs old? So what it's a crush I'm sure he isn't going to be your true love!! Go to the other school, don't stay behind because of some guy.
2006-07-23 22:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Putting aside the specific crush for a moment, if you transfer to an all-girl's school, you won't have any crushes in the future. Explain this in a mature way to your mom, and maybe she won't transfer you. It would be really hard to get into the dating scene when you're older if you don't have anywhere to meet boys. Also, go for the crush! Before you think about him more, tell him! You might be wasting your thoughts on him.
2006-07-23 22:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not love. This is a early teenage "obsession." An it happens a lot to everyone that age. However, risking your studies is not the answer. Many an obsession has ruined a life, just ask anyone who has been stalked by someone else. (Or even the stalker him/herself). You need more seasoning and experience my girl. If you think it feels too good to be true, it is. Don't throw your future away over a "boy."
2006-07-23 22:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by scorpio_draconis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you transfer you will be glad you did because you will get a better education. That will give you a chance to meet a lot more guys later on and I will bet that some of them will be really cute. Remember, next year you will have a crush on someone else.
2006-07-23 22:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by wolfmusic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand how you feel...bcoz at one time i experienced that too. i had this huge crush on a guy back in 8th grade also...but he had to leave bcoz they were a missionary family..and i was so angry at my mom for not allowing me to go to his farewell party and i was crying a river that time. i thought that was love and he was the one i was going to spend my whole life with.
but you know what happened, when he was gone and i couldn't see him already...my heart forgot. and i forgot about him eventually, completely. and yes i was also transferred in an exclusive girls school...kinda similar with yours, huh?
so you see..you're still very young and you will still be meeting alot of people in the future. and just let change come... and eventually you will feel better that you didnt hook up with that guy in the first place. trust me....everything will change with you. you dont have to hold on to this guy now.
2006-07-23 23:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is probably puppy love.. But as far as you risking your schooling for someone never ever ever do that!!!!!! You never know what is going to happen with that person. you have to make sure that you are smart and are able to take care of yourself. b/c in the end all you have to depend on is yourself.. if you have the chance for a great education than take it. Good Luck..
2006-07-23 22:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by ~MRS. PILKINGTON~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in 8th grade hunny.... i'm 21 and still stressin over men... you will not find the man of your dreams when you are that young. The same thing happened to me when i was in 8th grade and moved away from my crush... you will find someone else. Be a smart cookie and go to your new school... men like smart women!
2006-07-23 22:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋