I think this guy that works at a deli is cute. How do I go about asking him out or just talking to him?

Question

The cute guy at the deli works down the street from my office. I noticed him working behind the deli counter about two months ago and have gone in a few times since. I want to try and talk to him, although I'm not sure how to go about it since he's working. Last time I went to the deli I asked him the name of a salid I usually get. He joked with me and said "I'm not telling you". Then he told me the name and then said, "what's in a name though". I want to talk to him enough that he starts to recognizes me so it won't be weird if I ask him out.

Answer 1

keep up what your doin, try to tell him your name and introduce yourself, sounds like a funny, nice guy though

Answer 2

Well try to go into the deli more. If you know a time when there usually aren`t many costumers then go at that time whenever you can. Just make typical conversation. You could start out by asking if he`s had a lot of costumers that day and make a joke or two. Once you guys start talking a lot, you can ask him what he`s doing after work and if he`s not busy ask him to go somewhere, maybe not on a date exactly, but just so you can get to know each other better. I mean, you don`t want to ask the guy out because he`s cute and not even know if he`s a jerk or not. If everything works out good, and of course if you still like him once you know what his personality`s like, then ask him to dinner and a movie or something. Just make sure he knows its a date, and not just as friends. Of course if you want it can be a date from the start.

Answer 3

Don't listen to all these other crappy answers! Here's what you do:

1. Go to the deli when he's there and order another sandwich

2. Ask him his name and then when he replies say "oh yeah your the one that was gonna deny me a sandwich the other day"

3. if he says yea skip to step 5

4. If he doesn't remember Say anyways you seem nice enough to help me with a problem

5. Tell him "I have these free tickets to the local comedy show (that you buy after he commits)and i was wondering if you know any single guys that could go with me so i don't look lame there by myself! (all while smiling and making eye contact with him but don't stare him down)

If hes single and interested (but not shy) he'll suggest himself, theres nothing a guy likes more than to have all the pressure taken off the date proposing deal!

Tip: practice this with a male friend 10 times before you try it so it all rolls off the tounge well....... And if you get your guy you can tell him later about all this and laugh about it!

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Answer 4

Ah, courting a guy at the workplace. It's usually not a good idea to try and start a conversation while he's putting together a sandwich, though if he's not too busy, take the opprotunity to chat him up a bit. From what you said about him joking with you, it seems he recognises you, and from that "what's in a name" line, it may be that he's interested. You won't really know for sure until you get to know the guy, right? Ask him if he'd be interested in talking at his next break. Odds are, he'll be interested in some pleasant conversation at least, and it'd give you a chance to get to know him and vice versa.

Answer 5

Well it seems like he is flirting with you as well, so that's a good sign that he is interested. Just go in the deli and ask him if you could talk to him on break, order some food.. and really get to know this guy. It won't be that awkward when you're getting to know eachother :)

Answer 6

Just start with small talk like the weather or the news. Every time you go in ask him something new like for example ask him what kind of music he listens to or something like that. That way you can find out his interests and then talk about them whenever you come in the shop. He'll definitely recognize you after a while and maybe will look forward to seeing you.

Answer 7

I had the same encounter with a guy that worked at Church's Friend Chicken when I was a teenager....My mom knew that I liked him so she would always make me go and order for the family...He caught on that I wanted to talk to him..so he started to always go to the counter and take my order...One day I asked him if he was doing anything on a Saturday night and he said NO....so I invited him to accompany me to the gathering...We had a good time...he Joined the U.S.Navy...and left...we kept in touch for a while...but then I joined the U.S. Army...and we lost touch....just ask him...all he can say is "YES"

Answer 8

Go in to the deli EVERY single day so he begins to notice that you are a regular (even if you dont want to eat there....buy for your friends or something) because the "flirtation juices" are already flowing....heh, heh. This way you are comfortable and he is comfortable with you....so something is bound to happen either you will ask him out in a subtle way or he will end up asking you out. Try it and see if it works.

Answer 9

All you have to do is just write down on a piece of paper your name and number, give it to him and just say call me if you would like to hang out sometime! But once you do this and he doesn't call it might be a little weird if you go back for another salad. So make sure he isn't just being nice to a CUSTOMER but flirting with YOU! Good luck!

Answer 10

the next time you go to the deli, you should just try to start a casual conversation. you could ask him how long hes worked there, if he has any other jobs and things like that. if that goes well, you could start asking him more personal questions like if he plays any sports, any other interests ect. they would just show him that you're casually interested. after that it would be easier to start other conversations. hope things go well :)

Answer 11

If you think you might really like him, wait for him to ask you out. Keep visiting and flirt a little, but remember, guys almost always like/need to be the one doing the pursuing. If you want to just be with him a short time, then just ask him to go out.