What do you think about "saveing" yourself for the one person you know your going to spend the rest of your life with???
2006-07-23 15:36:52 · 33 answers · asked by crazySweetRedneck girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you dont have to be "easy" to be crazy!
2006-07-23 15:48:16 · update #1
why does every one seam to think you wont spend the rest of your life with ONE person?
2006-07-23 15:54:41 · update #2
it's the one thing that God wants you to do...and that you should do. waiting for the person that God has set apart for you may take long, but the waiting will be all worth it when you have him. you see, you really dont have to try out all the guys you meet to see if they're the one for you...because it doesnt work that way. you'll just end up with broken hearts and a broken hymen and you'll end up full of regrets and when you're old enough to really understand the importance of the virginity that you so carelessly gave away, you'll hate yourself for that and you'll end up in bondage of the wrong decisions you've made. this is in contrast to what the world believes that you have to explore all the people to find the perfect one. but really...all you have to do is to pray to God and ask HIM because HE ALONE knows whats best for us and all HE has are plans to give us a life and a hope.
so if its not too late to say this....please do save yourself for the man that God has in store for you. you are precious in God's eyes and you are worth waiting for.
2006-07-23 15:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I honestly don't think I could "save" myself and still feel I can live the rest of my life with the person. I mean, even if I DID take a U turn back to virginity :P
2006-07-23 15:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of actually spending the rest of your life with one person are slim to none. That stuff only happens in fairytales my little redneck Cinderella. Just do whatever you think is right, and then hope for the best…
2006-07-23 15:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by psychoticlawnjockey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not always a bad idea, there are alot of guys who are only out to "get it" and will say just about anything to do so, and once they do, they're done. Saving yourself for marriage may not be completely necessary, but at least wait for someone who wont do that. You dont wanna have any regrets.
2006-07-23 15:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saving your self is great(nothing to worry about)....but you're not promised tomarrow so how do you really know that your'e going to spend the rest of your life with this person?
2006-07-23 15:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a great idea. But I also think sex can become a big part and cause big stresses in the relationship. I someone is not satisfied then they are more likely to go looking for it elsewhere. Well there goes the happily ever after idea, or there comes STD's.
2006-07-23 15:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by adyafterday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that what you want to do it grate. some people will say that you are crazy for saveing your self for a person that you feel that you will spend the rest of your life with.!!!!!! i think it is a grate thing to do if you really want to.
2006-07-23 15:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mis.Jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be the best gift u will be giving to that someone you will be marrying. I have read somewhere that a men who have married a virgin tends to be deeper in love and will have a higher percent of not divorcing his wife. and yet given the situation we have today, many say it is better to "test" the relationship first before getting into marriage, they forgot tests of love does not involve that. so while its still there, save it and the story of your married life will become one of the "live happily ever after" story.:)
2006-07-23 15:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by tshingk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer in waiting until you have the right person in your life. I definitley think you should save yourself. Much patients will bring you many rewards!
2006-07-23 15:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be wise when choosing the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with.
2006-07-23 15:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by SILO979839 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋