like i was sitting in CHUCH and one of my guy friends was sitting in front of me talking about my chest!!!!gross
2006-07-23 15:30:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date older guys. They seem to be more mature
2006-07-23 15:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by mharris90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Outer beauty can be such a burden and a curse.
How do you know if a guy will like you for you? Probably most you run into will not.
My suggestion would be to date other dudes that have great bodies too, that way the playing field is evened out.
There's nothing to really do but to develop your wisdom and discernment to recognize the prince out of all of the frogs out there.
2006-07-23 22:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, even I've been guilty of this sort of thing before! Sometimes I do that to my wife just to play with her head. Don't let it bother you too much, just kinda expect it. If it does bother you, though, tell the guy. Most men (i.e. not high school or college guys) will blush and appologize. At least, I would.........
2006-07-23 22:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by analogkid1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a respect for yourself about this. As much as it is great to date people who think you are attractive you need to remember that you value yourself more than you value physical attraction. Your partner should show care, concern, respect and compassion for you before you allow physical contact to enter the relationship. Believe me...I am by no means a prude...I have intense passion within me but I need that care, concern, respect and compassion before I act on the physical attraction. I hope that makes sense.
2006-07-23 22:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore em. Guys like to do that stuff. But it's most of the time dispectful.
2006-07-23 22:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Michael H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk ignore him. Sadly some guys focus on one thing only or first, be patient you will meet the right man yet.
2006-07-23 22:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by red dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date more mature guys, talking about your breasts isnt on the top of a guy's list when they've got their head on straight.
2006-07-23 22:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start dateing guys like me, who go by personality, and then looks. we might still talk about your chest, but we'll love u more for your personality
2006-07-24 17:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by bahamadude91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them politely that you would appreciate they not talk like that. there is more to you than just your appearance. if a guy asks you out and he talks like that, i would decline to set your boundaries with him and to show respect for yourself.
2006-07-23 22:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a topic for chuch ...... maybe you could talk to them and tell them how you feel
2006-07-23 22:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by danaspears2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋