2006-07-23 15:17:56 · 24 answers · asked by baldwin7777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its an attention thing. Does she get enough from her parents?? Or are they too busy with their own lives? You only get one chance with your children.
2006-07-23 15:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by mharris90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughters only 1 right now and i don't know what I would do if this happened to me.I was a SL*T as a man so How would I react.Hmmm.Only time will tell.
I think i would talk to her about problems that could arrive if shes not careful.And if she faught with me about it I would calmly say Im just trying to show you that I love you and i do care.Its up to you what Image you want to portray but there are other factors too hun.Then I might say at least give me a hug before you leave me forever.
Of course this is all kinda sarcasim but still true That I care.I'd be laid back about it.But if it still bothers me I might try different tacktics.There's nothin better then a down to earth dad to get the message acrossed.But be a friend not just a dad.Let her know that anytime she needs someone to talk to that you're there for her.Goodluck
2006-07-23 15:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by Matty G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter would have been 14 this August if her mother hadn't killed her. I imagine she would have been well grounded, but arrogant because of her good looks, and would probably have had the same problem your daughter has. She's searching. Looking for either what's best for her emotional outlook on things or for what will feed her ego best. Roll with it for now, but sooner or later you'll have to have a talk with her. My guess is you should have talked with her already about what men and women see in each other and about relationships in general (I'm guessing she's not sexually active yet), and you should stress to her that she should confide in you about things she's questioning. And she IS questioning things, whether she'll admit it or not. If she won't admit it, she's experimenting. If she will admit it, be openly honest with her, even if it hurts a little. She deserves the truth. And be great.
2006-07-23 15:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does not get too involved and finds the relationship not working that is OK. Her problem may be taking chances with too many losers. She needs to look harder before trying a new guy. I just hope she is not passing out samples to all the guys in the candy store. Talk to her about how to form goals for picking the man in her life. You could give examples of how searching too hard often blocks the right guy from coming into her life.
2006-07-23 15:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your daughter is young, (13-20) it is just a phase. Many girls go through this phase. Make sure you talk to your daughter about practicing safe sex if suspect anything. This is an obvious sign of loneliness. Try spending more time with her or giving her hobbies to keep her mind off guys.
2006-07-23 15:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a daughter but I was that daughter that went from boy to boy and realy I think shes just weighing out her options.Not only that but you your self know how boys can be and how girls can be and when there young nothing can stop there zest for fun and I think thats just what shes doing.Having fun
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2006-07-23 15:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and how old is your daugher? if she's still in her high school years, then its not too late to discipline her yet. i think that most girls in the Western countries do this. they think that having a thousand boyfriends in their lifetime is the measure of their worth as a person. when in absolute reality, it isnt the measure of a person's worth at all. it just means that they are too irresponsible and immature in themselves that they cant even choose a decent boyfriend and they cant even be faithful and loyal to one. i believe that if there's any time to prepare oneself for the real life of marriage, then it has to be when one is still young. that means that you should be able to practice faithfulness now...for how can God grant you with greater responsibilities as marriage when you cant even handle little ones.
so about your daughter, just show her how much she is being loved in your home. shower her with constant love and affection and remind her how much you (the parents) trust her. and tell her that you trust that every decision she makes in her life is with so much thought and is good for her. sometimes young girls find the comfort of a boyfriend because they arent receiving enough love and affection in their homes..thats why they look for it somewhere else. so you can improve that and its not yet too late. good luck!
2006-07-23 15:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was that girl once..and it didn't mean that I was sleeping with them all...but...I did realize that that is alos a sign of codependency and possibly low self esteem because she could be afraid to be alone. This needs to be addressed soon b/c it will only get worse and cause unhealthy relationships later..pay attention to her self esteem and whether or not she defines herself by her boyfriends or does she know who she is? If not, I suggest you help her find things that SHE likes to do and encourage her to do them!!! Good luck!!
2006-07-23 15:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have kids, but i have friends that do that. They are teenagers and just trying to figure out what they want in a guy, so it can be a little normal. But how old is your daughter?
2006-07-23 15:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by ::.Mz.Allure.:: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't have a daughter but I was that way I was just so lonely and was just afraid to be by myself I guess I thought they loved me but I guess I just didn't have a very good self esteem
2006-07-23 15:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by melody b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but I have a son that must have a different woman every week...lol....He says he is trying them out till he finds the right one...the one he has now has been his girlfriend for the past 7 months and im praying he keeps her.
2006-07-23 15:20:02 · answer #11 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋