I've known him two yrs and have not had sex with him though its driving me crazy ..I dont want to mess with his future and he claims he's straight ..he has a girlfriend ..that is a big one for me ..I have been abstinate for two yrs ..since I found out
2006-07-23 15:12:08 · 6 answers · asked by alovaman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im confused. You have aids your 38 hes 21 and he has a girlrfiend? Walk away from him and let him live his life.Its the most loving thing you can do for him.
2006-07-23 15:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey. Aids isn't anything to play around with. One of my best friends died from that and I took care of him until he passed away. Let him live his life; if you two start messing around, he WILL catch the virus. It isn't like getting a girl pregnant, and it's over in nine months; once you have aids, you're a dead man/woman walking. There's NO cure yet. If you love this person, you'll leave the sex ALONE and let him live his life. It isn't worth the consequences. It's a horrible death. I'll pray very, very hard for you.
2006-07-23 22:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by amereilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you both love each other, he has a girlfriend and you have AIDS.....okay....so who says you have to be together.
It doesn't sound like the circumstances are right for a honest and communicative relationship of any kind. There is a lot of dishonesty here. Do the right thing, if he has a girlfriend, then leave it alone.
2006-07-23 22:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are TRULY IN LOVE with that 21-year old, then stop seeing him and let him go. he deserves to live a normal and healthy life. dont allow yourself to share your illness with him. stop your fantasizing and move on with whats really important in life. do the more important things you want to do before you die...which is inevitable in all of us. and fantasizing about something you cannot have should not be in your options. not only are you destroying your own life even more, you're about to destroy his entire life also. dont do it. let it go. it will only pass by.
2006-07-23 22:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Times.... Sleep with him unprotected, then tell him! Come on! You can't find anyone else that is HIV and date them! Yes, ruin his life!
2006-07-23 22:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn and walk Away,PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-23 22:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by pedroza67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋