umm,.......the reason we broke up is he was cheating on me with 2 different girls.
2006-07-23 15:04:12 · 27 answers · asked by sisterof_3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No - you said it yourself he was cheating with two other girls
The feeling that you are experiencing is not missing him... it's missing the company of a trusted other... go and make new friends that you can trust
there is an old rule that says "never go backwards" it is a true and wise (the reason it has lasted so long) statement. Going back to one you walked away from is ignoring your own gut... ignoring your gut means you are not respecting yourself enough - allowing that person to have too much control over your feelings.
Spend time with friends that you know - spend time with family - ask those you trust to help you to occupy your time so that you are not focused on something (or someone) negative.
Be good to yourself - treat yourself to a trip to the mall with the girls... have fun move forward be happy Good luck
2006-07-23 15:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by T ¸¸.â?¢*´¸¸.â?¢*´¨L ¨`*â?¢.¸¸¨`*â?¢.¸¸ T 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
NO STAY AWAY cheating on you is a big clue sadly he wasn't ready for commitment yet and may never be if he has this pattern twice.. ok .. twice he cant give u respect and care enough to tell you he doesn't feel happy or content that he can just up and do someone else the skanking sleeze with no morals or decency.. who needs that even people at young age should have the morals to say i think we need to see others as i am not happy no matter it hurts it is worse hurt in long run to lie and cheat get disease keep away he had 2 chances.. he is a LOSER
2006-07-23 22:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you're a massachist and want to write a bunch of angry songs ala Alanis Morissette about how guys screwed you. Hmmm, maybe at least you'll sell a bunch of CDs and get rich! Who knows? Pain might be your ticket to the American dream. LOL Girl, respect yourself. Don't go there!
2006-07-23 22:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Wunderkind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Answer is........ NO!
Your just trying to avoid the pain of the break-up. Go through the pain of separation and continue to find another. You can find someone that doesn't believe in cheating.
2006-07-23 22:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is something definitely between the two of you. That is other females. When an X is attached to something or someone, it is there for a reason.
2006-07-23 22:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Candie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then the only thing between you were the other 2 girls?
Uhmmm...I see no reason for you to call.
2006-07-23 22:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by da_lizard_of_ozz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no heckkkkkk no just think about it do you want to put yourself through that pain again probally not and if your still thinking about him then keep your self busy spend time with friends or family or go do something you have always wanted to do! hes not worth it if he did that to you and i know beleive me i know what im about to say is eaiser said than done LET GO OF ALL THE MEMORIES!! sure it was fun but then he diddnt cherish and love you like you did him so just let go
2006-07-23 22:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!!!!!!!! Are you crazy? Why would you wanna be with someone who was cheating on you with not only one but two girls? Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-07-23 22:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it's obvious this guy is never going to respect you. Stop wasting time on him and find yourself a guy who is worth your time. You're only going to hurt yourself if you get back with your ex.
2006-07-23 22:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur too good for him. Forget about this jerk. Move on. I bet u the other girls will too, and he'll have a bad reputation for relationships. He'll be ruined.
2006-07-23 22:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by MADRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋