One of my boyfriends friends girlfriend [that wasnt confusing, was it?] confessed to me that she has cyber sex at least once or twice a week.
Should my boyfriends friend consider that cheating?
Would you?
2006-07-23 14:59:07 · 20 answers · asked by Patient Paws 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I'd be royally cheesed if my SO were doing that, but that's based on the boundaries in our relationship.
The bigger question is - does your boyfriend's friend's girlfriend's BOYFRIEND (does that make sense?) consider it cheating?
If he does, then that's all that really matters. If he thinks it's cheating, it is.
If she is hiding it from him because it would upset him, then yes, it's cheating.
If he knows she's doing it and he doesn't have a problem with it, then no, it wouldn't be.
2006-07-23 15:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes I consider cyber sex cheating and it has nearly ruined my marriage.
My husband likes to cyber. I found out after I hacked into his computer a year ago.
Some quick facts
He's 55, I'm 32
Been married for 13 years
I've been online for 9 years, He's been online 2 years.
To make a long story short
I was jealous, figured he wasn't interested in me, I went out had an affair. My husband found out and I confronted him with his cyber girlfriends.
As of now, I don't trust him online and he doesn't trust me when I go out.
What to do?
He's a freelance writer and needs to be online so giving up his computer is not an option.
I have my own business as a licensed massage therapist going to clients homes everyday and I'm not going to quit working!
When you cyber with someone and are in a relationship I consider it cheating. Why do it? Are you looking for something better? Not happy, unsatisfied? Why do you need that sort of attention?
I was the one who physicaly cheated on him two times, however he still cybers 2 or 3 times a week!
2006-07-24 05:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by List P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-23 22:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by xtowgrunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because sex isn't just physical. It's altogether: physical, emotional, and mental. Cyber sex is giving that "mental" part of you to another, and so on and so forth. Blah, blah, blah, to make it short: YES, it is cheating.
2006-07-23 22:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by boo_6917 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-07-24 11:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would consider it cheating.
2006-07-23 22:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by CG234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-07-23 22:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by DisneyLover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is cheating. Any type of sex that does not include the boyfriend is cheating.
2006-07-23 22:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it also shows that the person would probably be willing to cheat in person as well.
2006-07-23 22:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes according to me..but then it depends on your boy friends friend..
2006-07-23 22:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by fresh n honest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋