hes asking me t have sex with him............how do i do it?
2006-07-23 14:58:40 · 29 answers · asked by hhmsjag 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes is my age and im ready i just dont know how to have flippen sex........dont make fun of me!!
2006-07-23 15:02:21 · update #1
How Do I HaVe SeX? TeLL meeeeeeeee
2006-07-23 15:04:13 · update #2
i NO HES GIVING ME TRUST AND HE WOULD BE FINE IF I SAD NO TOO SOO.. I BELIVE ITS OK TO DO IT BUT I DONT NO HOW!!!!
2006-07-23 15:06:00 · update #3
HOW DO YOU HAVE SEX??!!
2006-07-23 15:09:08 · update #4
You need to search the next or something. You obviously know what goes where as you are 16. Do not do it though if you are not ready.
2006-07-23 15:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by CanadaRox1234 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm...don't. If he's so sweet and committed and loyal he'll understand. If he doesn't then you're better off alone than with someone just lookin' for a piece of ***. Tell him you're not ready and see how he reacts. Wait a couple years. Sex only complicates things. I'm 17 and not having sex anymore because it distracted me from everything else. Once he starts, he'll be unable to stop until you're pregnant or something, and your relationship will become a glorified booty call. Wait a couple years. Just 'till you're out of high school. Then do it. Just make sure he understands you want to wait. If he's the guy for you he'll understand and be willing. If not then the sweetness was just a smokescreen to get you in bed. Don't let it happen. If you must USE PROTECTION. Better that than....well you know the alternative.
2006-07-23 15:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you do not have sex with him. It is a risky business and there are dangers you may not fully grasp. STD's or worse than that you could get pregnant. Teen moms have a hard life to live.
If you must go forward then you should definitely use contraceptives-condoms and an anti spermicidal foam with the directions on the box it should be easy enough to follow. But I think you should not do this.
Everything else is something you will figure out on your own. Just keep in mind that the first time is fairly painful and very messy.
Good luck.
2006-07-23 15:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by walter4p46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is probably just a little game (after all, you have an internet connection, you have instincts, you know "how" to have sex or you can learn in about five minutes on-line) however, on the chance that this is a real question, then "how" still isn't the question really bothering you, it must be "why"
tell him you are not ready
if he won't accept that, drop him
you are only 16 years old
you are uncomfortable and believe you don't know how because you are not ready
committed and loyal and sweet is NO REASON
this is the real test of his committment, sweetness and loyalty
tell him no for now, MAYBE someday
2006-07-23 15:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by enginerd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have sex with him just yet. If he is as loyal as you say he is, he will wait until you are 100% ready. Your body should be treated like a precious jewel, so do not let your boyfriend of 4 years or any any male take that away from you for the wrong reasons.
2006-07-23 15:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by Candie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it: has he been "sweet and loyal" simply to get sex or do you really think you have a future with this guy?
If you're uncomfortable with it, then say no. If he's really the "sweet and loyal" guy, he'll understand and he won't pressure you.
2006-07-23 15:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by Aimers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 12:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Run away. run far away. The "sweetness" is a trick. He's just trying to take the one thing you have that you shopuld only ever give to one person in your life. He does not care about you if he asks for sex. He only cares about himself. Run away or you will get hurt. Mark my words!!
2006-07-23 15:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by spockofvullcan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious he's pressuring you, you apparently feel pressured, and he has not respected your feelings. You can save yourself a lot of pain if you wait until you are ready (Customarily, once married.) If he's as sweet and loyal as you think, he'll understand, and wait until you are ready.
2006-07-23 15:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are not ready don't do it
tell him
he needs to know
if you are planning to have sex make sure it is safe
i am not going to tell you to go to your parents becuase the only thing they will say is tha tu are too young adn then you;ll end up doing it anyway
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-23 15:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋