there is this guy at my summer school his name is Brandon. he asked me out at the park today. i said yea, because i like him. but we only have 4 more days of summer school left =(. and he is going in to 9th grade iam going into 8th. so we are at dif. schools. should i stay with him? i wont know what he is doing who he is flirting with. but i really love him already. big crush!!!! ADVICE
THANKS
2006-07-23 14:57:51 · 43 answers · asked by Bree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As soon as you see another cute guy at school you'll forget all about Brandon. Have 4 days of fun and then end it. There will be plenty more boys at your school
2006-07-23 15:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Umm ... personally, I feel 8th grade is a little too young to date! Anyway, if you must, don't get tied into a relationship. These are your days to think about what you really like in a guy. If another guy is more into you and treats you better and you really trust and like him, I would definitely keep that option open.
This I know because I know female colleagues of mine who are 35 and divorced and wished they had dated more when they were younger to see what is out there, rather than being committed to a jerk who left them later on.
Also, on the contrary, I know of couples who have known each other and been a couple since pretty much the time that they can remember. Your situation doesn't sound like this.
8th grade is too early to be worried about "long term relationships." This especially since you are only in the "crush" phase of things. You are right to be extremely cautious at this time. You have to really spend time with someone to know what kind of person they really are. I like what Chris Rock says "For the first few weeks, your representative is dating my representative."
Even when you do get older, take things as they come along because a lot of this "love" stuff is NOT dependent on just you. The other party needs to, in some way, return it and respect it as much as you do.
Best and good luck to you in your romances.
2006-07-23 15:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by xdwcpsd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are so young i too have a daughter going to the 8th grade.Your too young i think to know what love really is and you have your whole life ahead of you.I do think it is a crush and think that you should keep in touch because the summer school is ending.Everyone is different and i thought i was in love and at 17 lost my virginity to my ex and we went to different schools.I hung around him all the time but when i got pregnant at 17 he was gone didn't want to be with me anymore.Found out he was cheating even when i was with him so it doesn't mean he will do that to you.Just if he is going to do that know it can be at this other school your not in or it could be while he's with you.So be careful and it's always good to be friends first before anything else at your age.Whenever you start dating it is always better to date someone in another school anyway that way people wont be in your business.
2006-07-23 15:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, sweetie, if you both like each other, stick with him for a while. You guys can always be together after school or on weekends. But keep your eyes open at your own school, too. Sometimes love disappears in one place and then pops up right in front of you!
2006-07-23 15:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, your problem isn't huge, lol, it's tiny ;)
that you both are in different schools should be an advantage for the both of you, so each of you doesn't get distracted by the other and can stick to learning ;) unless of course he's from a different town, then the things might get complicated, you both being young and reckless :))
give it a try! if he's nice - and he must be or you wouldn't have feelings for him, then he'll be loving to become your boyfriend and if he's only after your panties you'll also find out. in that case, kick his a$$ ;)
good luck - love's fantastic
2006-07-23 15:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Pinturicchio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always stay in touch with him via email. If the two of you end up liking each other more, then great. If it doesn't work out, then at least you'll have one more friend and a lot more experience for your next friendship. Either way, you both win!
2006-07-23 15:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by robsrecords 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain friends with him. But your too young to know for sure your in love with him. You like him really alot. Your about 13 and this is the time of your life when you are changing and new and exciting things are opening up for you. My advice reamin friend with him but don't go beyond that for now or you'll get hurt.
2006-07-23 15:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by AceOfBears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give it a try and meet each other after school. talk on the phone or just hang out. but if u feel like he is cheatin on u break it as soon as possible. cuz than you would be too hurt. and if it does work out next year you would be in the same schools rite?if you love him no one can tell how u really feel only YOU can.
2006-07-23 15:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to trust him if it's going to work. Just 'cuz different schooling doesn't mean he's gonna cheat or anything. Just if he starts being too busy all the time to be with you much then worry. Other than that, trust is necessary.
2006-07-23 15:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being with someone is a choice, not something you can force a person to do. So why is it after we're with someone, we try to force the person to stay? It was the person's choice in the first place. Leave it as a choice. Whatever option that person chooses, it's gonna be a good one for you.
2006-07-23 15:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋