I know this hot blonde and she always gets turned down by black men. She is about 5'10, 130 pounds, sweet personality, good sense of humor.
She lives in a black neighborhood and can't get a date with a black man but the white and asian men that work with her are all over her. She won't date coworkers though.
Why are black men so racist towards beautiful white women???
2006-07-23 14:53:51 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's odd, it would seem society paints that picture differently. The stereotype is that when a black man "makes it" he immediately gets a white woman. I'm pretty sure many black women would disagree with your statement. Look at the NBA, for example, so many black players have whit wives. Maybe she should find a basketball player.
PS, I hope the Yahoo police are not going to remove this thread because it's actually interesting.
2006-07-23 14:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by GVD 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
First of all, black men are not racist towards white women. Just saying that is ignorant. You say she's 5'10", 130 lbs? Small butt? There's part of the problem, but not all. Look, black, white, Asian, whatever men have their own tastes. Really. It sounds to me like your sister (of course, I'm only guessing) may be targeting men based on their color - that's racist. Being in a "black" neighborhood doesn't give her cart blanche on the guys living there. If I were to try to use what little facts are available, I would say she's given herself a reputation of some kind that doesn't appeal to the guys that know about her, and THAT'S why they don't want to date her. It really doesn't matter that she likes black men and nobody wants to date her from the 'hood.
2006-07-23 15:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by David 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are not...Its a cultural thing and blackmen do find white women attrractive...The problem, is usually 2 things...When white women live in black areas they don't act white anymore they take on a black like persona. The other thing is a black guy will find it socially hard to have a white girlfriend and still be accepted by the black females that are his friends. The other reason is that still after all these years black people insist on being different by exhibiting made up differences. For example when I was growing up black guys always had a pick or(comb) in their pockets. The reason for stereotypes is that people in general insist on creating new ones for different social behaviors and unfortunately blacks insist on being special because they are black ...Just once i'd like to see any generation black , white or otherwise be exhibited as just being accomplished at something besides being a different color.!!!
2006-07-23 15:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very misinformed here my friend! Black men must find white women quite attractive for there to be so many interracial couples and/or marriages.
Maybe your "hot blond" co-worker isn't all that!
Maybe your perception is way off base?
And to ask "why are black men so racist towards beautiful white women" is just a racist statement in itself!
Maybe YOU should ask her out? So your next question will be why do beautiful white women turn down DORKS?
2006-07-23 15:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two are just in a different neighborhood. I know plenty of black guys that date white women so for you to judge the many by the few is 'racist'
Anyway, (on a personal note), some black men just want to stick with black women because (no offense) white women don't have a**es like black women.
2006-07-23 14:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Cute_Gyrl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am asked out frequently by black men! I am 5'11, 150 pounds, naturally red headed,sweet personality and a wonderful sense of humor!
I live in a mixed neighborhood and work in a mixed area.
I do not think black men are racist when it comes to women and relationships!
2006-07-23 15:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its the history behind it, maybe yu have heard this before..... back in the 1950's and 60's white women have gotten black men in trouble. such as a white woman got raped by her husband, but to spare her husband she just says "a black man did it" and she will just give a random description of a black male. remember when black men would be lynched just for looking at one. and the white woman would do nothing to help defend him. and plus about 8 years ago a black man was hung because he was dating a white girl. its not that we are not attracted to them, its just all the deadly results of dating one. and the bad thing is it stills goes on today , just in a diferent way.
2006-07-23 15:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe they are racist about dating white women. They date plenty of them. Truthfully every black man I know likes women with a curvy figure and a few extra pounds of junk in the trunk. Perhaps your tall thin blond would fare better with a few crispy cremes. LOL All joking aside, I really don't believe it is more than that.
2006-07-23 14:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sueby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is still that race segregation and not many people want to get into interracial relationships because it brings about a lot of disapproval from people. Being in an interracial relationship is not easy and many just don't want to deal with the drama and problems that go along with it. However, that is clearly changing as the number of interracial relationships are increasing rapidly. We can only run from each other from so long before we end up in the same bed. ;-)
2006-07-23 14:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since a lot of black men marry white women, there is a chance they see something in her personality which is BAD NEWS, and you are missing it for some reason -- usually lust.
Yeah, this violates everything I have seen, so there has to be something that scares them off.
2006-07-23 14:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋