Is it possible to think you love someone, who you have been with for almost eigth months, but you're just using them for sex? I mean...me and my boyfriend have been together for almost eigth months, and he just recently graduated from highscool and he lives kind of far away, and we only get to see eachother like once a week, and we usually end up having sex... I mean, I love him, and he says he loves me...but is it possible that it's just the sex....? I mean, we tried not doing it yesterday...but we ended up giving up within like 3 hours....
2006-07-23 14:51:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, he doesn't really live that far...but none of us have a car, he lives like maybe 2 hours away? I mean, we've broken up before...for like two months, and we just ended up back together...if that means anything.
2006-07-23 14:59:27 · update #1
We do do other things...it's not JUST the sex...but we always end up doing that when it comes to the end of the day....
2006-07-23 15:01:20 · update #2
I mean, we talk all the time, like whenever we can. And just at every chance we have to hnag out and stuff. And we can go out, and we do talk, and he is there for me, and I know I love him, it's just that I was wondering if maybe that's all I was to him...When we broke up, I gave him the option of just leaving...and that I'd leave him alone...but he came back. I mean, he could have gone to someone else for the sex...cuz I know plenty of people that are after him(which sucks for me) but he never paid any attention to them or anything...
2006-07-23 15:20:00 · update #3
Having sex all the time or most of the time when you meet isn't a bad thing as long as you guys do other things too. If you guys have conversations and dinners and so on and so forth apart from the sex, i don't see the problem. if it's ONLY sex and nothin else.. then perhaps you oughta re evaluate what's important with him cause you sound like you do love him. Perhaps its lust with him? Hmm.
2006-07-23 14:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need to talk this one out. To me you're using him for the sex and not b/c you really love him. You need to take some time and think and then talk it out with him. You said he lives kinda far away..then maybe u should consider seeing other ppl just to see if it's really love or not. Hope it works out!
2006-07-23 14:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by duke baby! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look... I'm not a expert but if you were to look it up..Sex is a very important part of a relationship. Try one without it? Any way the more you see each other you'll eventually answwer your own question! I would not base your whole relationship on it but as long as things are going well why try and fix it. Remember one thing reality will eventually come in to play...Jobs ..other people..kids...$$$....So have fun while you can!!
2006-07-23 15:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its proberly just a physical thing if all you do is have sex. Can you talk to him?Or does all he want is sex. If so then thats all you are to him. Anyone can say the words: I love you. Just remeber that saying those words has nothing to do with meaning it. You can do bettrer than him.Thats what I thimk. A relationship should'nt just be based on sex.
2006-07-23 15:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its just for sex and you know it, thats okay. Love and sex are two separate things and don't always happen at the same time. Sex is great but when you're sick it won't bring you breakfast in bed.
2006-07-23 14:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Cat C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a description of lust,
Love is much more dynamic. Sex is only a part of a loving relationship. You should be able to enjoy eath other's company, without sex.
2006-07-23 15:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Seeking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2006-07-23 14:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be lov emaybe just lust sex plays a good role in relationships look deep down and you will find the answer you are looking for
2006-07-23 14:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the sex when ever you can get it. Isn't it wonderful? Or become a tall chicken and lay eggs !!!!
Cluck Cluck !!!!
The tall chicken bandit strikes again !!!!!
2006-07-23 14:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with honey bear
Just lust give it up. Move on to a more enduring relationship
2006-07-23 14:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋