There this girl Who I like but she dont like me at least I dont think so. We Hang out almost everey day but she says she would never go out with me because Were like bro and sis, Im not experienced enough( I never had a gf) but deep down I think Im ugly and fat so she dont like me becuz of that. Another reason is that im annoying but i try not to be. I compliment her, Buy her stuff, bring her to movies, every thing but she still dont. also shes waaaaay ahead of me sexually if that helps.
2006-07-23 14:40:35 · 8 answers · asked by toofoot72 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i decided to tell her how i felt and she told me she only saw me as a friend but i love her so much because when we hang out all i think about is her and what i can do or say to maker her laugh or feel good. but i dont know if i should just forget about it and stay as friends or keep trying and see if she later on sees me more than a friend. what should i do ??
2006-07-23 14:45:59 · update #1
I want to get over her somtimes but I can NEVER get her out of my head I mean I cant even explain it I just love her
2006-07-23 14:50:00 · update #2
Do you think if I make her jealous it'll might help
2006-07-23 14:53:15 · update #3
Im 14 shes 13
2006-07-23 15:09:20 · update #4
Hey don't worry about that soon you would get over her.stop buying her things save your money so when you do find a girl do that likes you.
And stop thinking your ugly and fat cause your never going to get a girl like that
She probably does like you like a bro.and maybe you should understand or your going to loose her.
Iam passing by the same situation i have a guy friend who is always giving me stuff and iam tired of that because i dont like him like i only see him as a friend. But he keeps trying i feel sorry for him thats why i tell you to stop giving her things.
2006-07-23 15:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by SMILEY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a clue. You may continue the friendship (if you can call it that) but you must stop showering her with gifts and such. She knows you like her and should not take advantage of your kindness.
Now lets work on your image. OK...so your' a large person. You can still hold your head high and above all...love yourself. Carry yourself with dignity and be above any ridicule or cruelness others may try and give you. Love and respect yourself. You can do it...really you can. Believe me its all in the mind. You don't have to buy any ones friendship or love. Promise yourself you are just not going to let anyone (least of all a female) take advantage of you.
Now is the time to redirect your priorities. Start digging deep into your studies and set some goals for yourself. What do you want to be when you turn 21...25...30? You can't wait until then...you have to start now. If you are a teenager, 21 and manhood is just around the corner. Now is the time to prepare for that stage of your life.
Don't loose sight on the Big Picture. Put yourself in the position to be self supporting and have a career. Do this. You have value...to thine own self be true.
2006-07-23 22:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can hang out with her
It's probably because you're fat and or ugly. You can try losing weight. She says it's because you're friends but that is just putting it nicely.
You're not annoying, don't worry about that.
Don't blow any more $$$ on this user. You can hang out with her as long as you realize what your relationship is. Otherwise she will just keep using you.
Does she ever help you? Or is it you always helping her...
2006-07-23 21:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying!!! Girls like boys who are low key. stop trying to be her boyfriend and just be her friend. if it is for you . It will be yours. slow down enjoy being her friend. If you keep trying you just might lose her as a friend / you think. Be happy with what you have. A FRIEND!!!!!!!
2006-07-23 21:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waist youre time on her youll find a a better new one who loves you for who you are
2006-07-23 21:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur way to good for her. Get someone that will appreciate you more. Good Luck!! :)
2006-07-23 21:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by MADRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 2 good for her. move on, find another girl.
2006-07-23 21:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on!!!!!!!!
2006-07-23 21:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋