We broke up like a month ago. I don't know what I did wrong, didn't cheat on him, didn't lie to him... so why wont he speak to me?? My other ex's were still friends even a couple days after breaking up, what's wrong with him? Can you guys give me some answers to why he's acting this way pleeeeease!! (Girls too if you think you can help)
2006-07-23 14:30:55 · 30 answers · asked by Salomé Alexia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has found someone new.
2006-07-23 14:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I hate when someone breaks up with u like that.
He may be with someone else( he's a jerk sweetie) forget him and try very very hard to move on, stop wasting time over him, and do as he did move on and don't look back. If he calls act as if ur not even into what ever he has to say, because I bet he thinks ur waiting to hear from him ( don't give him that power) just move on to a guy who will treat u better then he did and who will not have u wondering where and why he's not around anymore.
Just let him go and be happy.
Good Luck
I know it may be hard, but u will get through it and it may make u a stronger person.
2006-07-23 14:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I hope i can help but i'd love a lil' bit more info first. How old are you? How old is he? How long were the two of you goin out for? Did you guys argue a lot? How often did you guys meet while you were dating? What was the reason he gave you for breaking up? Sorry if this sounds a lil' intrusive. If you were to answer these questions, i might be able to help but sometimes stating things like these for yourself might even allow you to understand why.
2006-07-23 14:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he is thinking should not be your main concern. The fact that he did in a disrespectful and classless way should be what's bothering you. Whatever the reason is, the fact that he could be so cruel and down right heartless is enough to let you know that he is not the right person for you.
This will be difficult but consider it a blessing in disguise. And...whatever you do not let him back in your life to be able to do it again. Always demand respect to whom you give your love to and accept nothing less. Maintain your self respect. don't just let any jerk jack you around. You deserve better!
To thine own self be true.
2006-07-23 14:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a million different things, but its not you. Not everyone is meant to be together, and unfortunately even "mutual" breakups are usually one person just being done, and so the other person has to take more time to get over it and move on. The longer you worry about "what went wrong" the more time it will take for you to move on and find someone who truely appreciates you.
2006-07-23 14:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Wes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels like that , if he still communicates with you that you might get the wrong impression that he still likes you in a b/f- g/f. way.
It just didn't work out between the two of you. Doesn't mean that you did anything wrong.
I would just mark it down as experience and keep looking for the one that is going to be your life-timer.
sorry, but that's the way it goes.
2006-07-23 14:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by retta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible... he found someone new
and
(in my opinion, if you don't mind)
realize there is nothing or no step to take the relationship into the next level.....
It turns out to be a sour ending.
And there was nothing wrong with you.
You made a good decision!
In addition, You can have talk to him to find out. so that this question wouldn't be just stay in your mind. I believe this question bothers you a lot.
Once again, You will find someone who loves and cares about you in this planet!
Good Luck!
2006-07-23 14:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by Unsent soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing: he's met someone else. He broke up with you to be with her and he won't speak to you because he wants to be loyal to her while he's still feeling bad about breaking up with you for the wrong reasons.
2006-07-23 14:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it just hurts too bad knowing you did nothing wrong and all. The thought of seeing you and talking to you may just be too pain-full for him right now. Hopefully things will get better good luck.
2006-07-23 14:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by pisces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the two relationships that I was really really into a girl I could not be their friends afterwords. I did not see her as a friend I saw her as a girl I was attracted to and wanted to be with regardless of what happened between us. I had to seperate myself from them because it was just making me miss them and be miserable rather than moving on. Thats all he is doing, moving on!
2006-07-23 14:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by scottwatras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean a long time ago it happened to me and I knew it mean't he was only with me until he could find something better. Lift your head and be proud because he will be back because he hurt you and you need be strong enough to turn him away. Because he will do it again.
2006-07-23 14:35:08 · answer #11 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋