My girlfriend broke up with me but she still calls me and wants me to go over?

Question

we have been together three years she broke up with me a month ago but calls me to go over and stay the night with her and always want to have lunch and dinner.I like her alot but she is confusing me so much .She says she misses me when im not around but dosent want to be with me and needs time.what should i do

Answer 1

Act like you don't even care about her, for some reason, I guarantee then she'll wonder why you're behaving in that way and want you so bad. I guess it's because we always want what we can't have. Stop being her slave, her punk, doing what she wants! Be a man, and don't let her control you. Sounds like she is, When she asks you to come over, tell her you have plans, or you are busy. and then go out with your friends.

Answer 2

I have heard of people doing this very thing" they'll breakup with they're mate yet they will continue to hang around and want to do thing they did as mates. I think she either may be want to get back together, has decided without u that your back together or she wants to have her cake and eat it too.

So unless ur enjoying it, u need to talk with her and ask her just what the hell is she doing, because "HELLOOOOOOOOOOO, remember u broke it off with me a month ago" but ur still calling staying over, doing lunch and telling me that u miss me. Are u insane?

If u don't want her doing this U can stop her( IF U REALLY REALLY WANTED TOO), and tell her she needs to stop with the calls, staying over, no more lunches and if she misses u so much to look at a picture of u,, read an old card or just try hard not to think about u, because u want to move on and u can;t move on with her still hanging around.

Answer 3

You need to give her an ultimatum because you really don't need to be put through all these changes. Either she wants you or not. There are other fish in the sea you know. Sit down and have a heart to heart to get things straighten out for the welfare of you both. Good luck!

Answer 4

She's obviously got issues. Sorry to insult her, but it's true.
Ask her where u guys stand on the "Friends" scale. Just friends, More than friends, or BF/GF. Then maybe u can start figuring things out, Good Luck!! :)

Answer 5

she knows she can get u to stay around and so shes using that plus if ur not technically together she can get sum other guy too so shes playing both fields, i'd leave her for once and show her she cant take advantage of you. u deserve better.

Answer 6

listen get out now,she's just using you until she is done with you,stand up for yourself and realize what she is dion,she's using you,because when she finds somebody that she likes you will be on the curb,and then you will be hurt way more than you were when she broke up with you because you are still attached,and shes using you so she won't feel lonely,believe me i know.

Answer 7

Don't do it. She's gonna think of you as "backup boyfriend". Tell her she needs to decide one way or the other, but stop keeping you around if she doesn't want to be with you.

Answer 8

XXXXXXXXXXXXX she's playing games with you and you're hanging on like a lost kitten. I don't think she really knows what she wants but is keeping you at arms length just in case it's you. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Answer 9

She didn't want to break up with you and she misses you. You need to become scarce and see if she really wants you back.

Answer 10

if she wants to go back out or not
if she says she need time then ask her if it can be apart
or ask if she is going to go out with some one else
find out the facts