I do not have a preference, I do not like to limit my choices. I been around Caucasian women that I found very interesting, but I was afraid to approach them, because I was not sure if they liked African-American guys. I felt that I probably missed out on opportunities because of my fear of rejection and being accused of harrassment. So does anyone have any suggestions?
2006-07-23 14:11:23 · 13 answers · asked by Brothaman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it depends on where you are when you ask. If I was at a party or bbq and a guy asked me out I would accept. If I was at a club and a guy came up and asked me out I would probably say yes about meeting him at the club a few times before going out elsewhere. If I was at an ATM and ANY guy came up and asked me out I would be reaching for my pepper spray. Sad, but true!!! So many creeps out there that it makes it unfair for the good guys.
Happy dating!
2006-07-23 14:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by KeeCee 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The first thing you have to do before you approach a Caucasian woman is get over your racial bias and prejudice. Women are women, buddy. As I read your question, it is obvious that you are caught up in who is black and who is white and that you think there are big differences. Until you tackle your racial issues, you'll never succeed with any woman.
2006-07-23 14:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't say, "hey, ever been with a black man?"
OK, on a serious note, if you feel there might be a connection, just ask her out. I can't imagine an intelligent woman this day and age being put off by it. Just try to avoid ignorant losers.
2006-07-23 14:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, race doesnt matter. if you like someone you shouldnt be afraid to express your feelings for a person. Think of the good thing could come about, not the worst that can happen.
2006-07-23 14:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by i_am_the_munki_of_this_jungl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her, you can get rejection from an african amercan woman to. as of harrassment, i date a black guy and i'm having his baby, even his family and mine have things to say about us, just comes with the relationship. just cant let it get to you. honestly, most white woman will not even care about what color you are.
2006-07-23 14:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by formtdewpoints55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you approach African American women. . . with class.
2006-07-23 14:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should color matter. If you are an intelligent and open person, any woman will respond. Be able to carry on a conversation.
2006-07-23 14:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. all u need is courage to ask her for a date. make sure ur first date is the memorable one then her heart is urs. amen. start the ball rolling. hope u'll succeed
2006-07-23 14:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self and strike up a confersation, do what you always do when approaching a woman.
2006-07-23 14:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by pumpkin82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are like every one else. Just ask. If we are not interested we will be gentle and just tell you in a nice way.
2006-07-23 14:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋