I think I like this girl more than a mate, we're just trying to work it out so does her saying that its really great that i'm there for her mean anything, I'm just not sure.
we like eachother but am trying to work things out at this stage lol...
answers from guys and girls will be accepted.
thanks
2006-07-23 14:03:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If someone told me that it was great that I was there for her, I would feel complimented. It means that she regards you as a supportive person. Plus, it means that she enjoys having you around her. It sounds like you have been very helpful and kind to her. I bet she is falling in love and is just afraid to come out and tell you. She is a lucky girl.
2006-07-23 14:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to really know what she means. It could (and most likely ) be hat she accept you as her friend...then it could mean a bit more. At any rate she didn't come out and say that she wanted more than a friendship.
Take it slow. Don't try and move too fast. Try and strengthen the relationship by being someone she can depend on and trust. As this grow..eventually let her know that your feelings are getting deeper. Let her know that at no cost do you want your friendship to end if she doesn't feel the same. Let her know that she means a lot and you will respect her feelings no matter what. If she doesn't feel the same way, continue the friendship but began to show interest in other girls. She couldn't blame you for that...and if she becomes jealous...well, you know what that means.
Above all keep cool and good luck.
2006-07-23 14:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her saying "You there for her" means that she can always rely on you no matter what. In other words when a girl likes spending time with you it usually means they like you. To make sure that she likes you it is best to stay out of the friend zone. The friend zone is when a girl only wants your relationship to be that of only being friends. To stay out of the deep areas of the friend zone it is best to not always do things for her that she can do for herself, but in a joking way. For example if shes always asking you to get her a glass of water tell her "You have legs you lazy person! Hahaha" or something to that effect. Also avoid doing girly stuff like trying on her make-up (even if its in a joking way), and listening to her talk about boys she likes.
Now what your gonna want to do is start spending even more time with her. Even if you hang out with her and her friends spend most of your time talking to, and hanging out with, her as much as you can. If she enjoys it start flirting with her alittle bit like giving her complaments, and increaseing eye contact. If she is responding well ask her to do something by yourselves. After about three dates ask her out. This is your best approch to avoid just be friends, and incrasing the attraction between you.
2006-07-23 14:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it means something because when a guy is there for the girl then that means more than words can say.
2006-07-23 14:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she likes you because you are there for her. I wouldnt read anymore than that into it, but its nice she likes you to be around. Just take your time and dont rush things.
2006-07-23 14:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dude, it means your a friend.
and Friend status sucks.
Just kidding. It means what she said. She appreciates you being there fore her.
2006-07-23 14:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by RockStarinTx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ask her out before it's too late. Good Luck!! :) Let me know how it goes! :)
2006-07-23 14:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by MADRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she really likes you, so just give it a little more time
2006-07-23 14:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by bev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is happy you are there, but not sure if she wants to take it further. Ask her!!!
2006-07-23 14:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋