i've been dating this guy for a while now, and i do like him, but i dont want to be clingy, or "needy" but at the same time i am sooo attracted to him, that i really want to see him 24-7 but i dont really show it because i heard it a turnoff. Hes sooo incredibly gorgeous, and i would love to spend lots of time with him, but sometimes i play hard to get cuz i dont want to show signs of being needy. any advice?
2006-07-23 13:55:54 · 14 answers · asked by whuvahgut? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Just say, "Too bad I can't spend all day, every day with you... OK, gotta go!"
Then fill up your days with stuff to do. This way you aren't putting him off: You really ARE busy, your mind will be distracted, and you DID tell him how you feel.
Good luck!
2006-07-23 14:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stay away from needy. As a guy, I love to feel needed by a woman, but on the flip side of the coin I also have things that I want to do minus the girl.
Show your interest and let him know you want to be close to him, but also make sure you give him some space to do his own things as well. That way you're not stifling him but also showing just how much you care.
2006-07-23 21:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Slipshade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him how you are feeling. You do not want to spend months with this guy and find that the two of you do not match. Don't be afraid to lose someone because they are "gorgeous".
relationship: a state of connectedness between people.
See how there is nothing in the definition of relationship that says anything about how gorgeous someone is.
2006-07-23 21:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really talk to the guy about what he feels is too much time together, that way you know that you arent being too "clingy" and you'll know his boundaries. thats the best advice i can give.
2006-07-23 21:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by tiffany m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont play hard to get...some guys dont like him...you obviously like eachother because youre dating, so let him know you really like spending time with him..but dont be clingy
2006-07-23 20:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by xtrutildthx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your on the right trak. Keep it up, I know I don't like a real clingy person.
2006-07-23 20:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a catch 22 situation. go with the flow of life it will deal you the right hand to play.
2006-07-23 21:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by tall5562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, start being honest with him. Be yourself. If he likes you enough he'll get it. If not, you need to move on because the feelings not mutual.
2006-07-23 21:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take lots of pictures of him and send them to him to show him how much you care. also, keep in mind that boys love pokemon better than sex and you should play pokemon cards with him whenever possible.
2006-07-23 20:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let how you feel show a little bit, see how he reacts. he could feel the same way and not show it because you dont. you never know.
2006-07-23 20:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by formtdewpoints55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋