She told me my GF isn't good enough for me and stormed into the shower while I was already in there. We just stared at each other for 5 minutes undressed and we just hugged each other and cryed. Dudes my older sister wants me. What do I do ? She's 21 and I am 19. We've always been tight and she's always protected me from bullys. I kind of owe her.
2006-07-23 13:43:32 · 40 answers · asked by Chula 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you would both end up regretting it later
2006-07-23 13:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by ©2009 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Run away from this situation as fast as you can--faster even. Do you really want to have an affair with your own sister? What kind of future do you think this kind of relationship has? If you're family and friends find out you will become a pariah to everyone you know. Do not think that there will be any kind of good outcome from this.
Control your lust and think with your head for a change. Do something good for yourself and tell your sister to get lost or you'll sink into an abyss that will haunt you for the rest of your life. DON'T DO IT!!!!
2006-07-23 13:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get a grip - of reality, nothing else (!) - if she really thought that your gf wasn't good enough for you, then she must love you. However, a relationship of this nature just isn't on between siblings - it is unnatural and I think it is most unfair of your older sister to be putting you through this at all.
Your don't owe her shi* man, she is your sister, that is what families are supposed to do for each other - care, love, protect and respect. What she is trying to get you to do is inherently wrong and you must not let it happen!
2006-07-23 13:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's disgusting. Your sister may have protected you from bully's, but that is what an older sister does. In NO WAY, SHAPE OR FORM does that mean you OWE her some sex! That's considered incest!!! Tell her to go find a man that is NOT related to her!!!
2006-07-23 13:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by snowball24life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your sister by blood, then you need to stay away from her that way. If you had children, they could turn out all screwed up. Affection - fine - give massages, whatever, but no sex. It's not even legal in America to have sexual relations with such a close relative and there are good reasons for that.
2006-07-23 13:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is definitely sending you some mixed signals, but don't play into them. Seek counseling before you do something that the two of you will regret for the rest of your lives. She could be jealous of your girlfriend, but she is not your replacement. Although she is older, be the stronger sibling. Good Luck!
2006-07-23 13:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has always protected you and you feel you owe her....then its your turn to protect her now...protect her from incest...it would be worse than anything any bully could have done to you! Dude...you owe her that much!
2006-07-23 14:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by lsull37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your older sister that she's a freak. And, that their are millions of guys she can screw and that it's not YOU> Tell her that your going to tell mommy and daddy if she doesn't leave you alone. Also, if you do this, you will always think that Your children will become a freak like you, So, DO NOT DO IT.
2006-07-23 13:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Major trouble dude, if you something you regret, and its in the family, its bad news for everyone! just talk to her or something, u can stay tight, but dont get frisky or anything, meet new ppl dont date ppl u know since forever!
2006-07-23 13:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by meismisunderstood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you do owe her but not in that way. Tell her to back off. If you let her have her way you might be regreting it for the rest of your life.
2006-07-23 13:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by packer_miamifan05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLD UP you don't owe her that
you owe her for being your sister
that is not right you are 19 use your head
that is not right this is jerry springer ****
2006-07-26 13:57:25 · answer #11 · answered by Moshell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋