its like this i have dated my share of women and they always tell me im to nice for them. say i scare them because i wont hit them. because i will even draw them a hot bath with body beads after their hard day at work, give them flowers, open doors , heck even look after kids from a previous marrige for her to get some time away! i just dont get it! its how i was raised! seems honor and respect isnt what women want and when they do get it they freak out !
2006-07-23 13:33:09 · 17 answers · asked by thecoldone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't speak for everyone, but in my situation, it's because men like you seem too good to be true. It's like I'd always be waiting for the other shoe to drop. To find out he's a cross dresser, or a porn freak, or something in that spectrum. I know that no one is perfect, I'm definitely not. In my situation, I met and fell in love with my soulmate. He was perfect. I still can't find any fault with him to this day. But as you go out into the world as a couple there are temptations, and people who don't see love the same way as we did. I was so scared of losing him or him breaking my heart, that I started nitpicking at everything and eventually we broke up due to that. After that, I got into a harsh, volatile relationship that scarred me for life. I will never again take men like you for granted. I think that we women have to go out into the world and experience a little evil before we can appreciate men like you. You could give me a call; I've learned :)
2006-07-23 13:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I don't know any woman that wants this kind of treatment!! They may feel stuck in a relationship or gone through a lot, but that doesn't mean that's what they wanted!! Women that are abused physically & mentally are really SCREWED UP!!! during and after the relationship is over!! Believe me it is not by choice that these emotions are There!!!
If you find someone you really like, you will just have to be a bigger person to look over her flaws as
we are not all perfect!!!
2006-07-24 04:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm sorry but i kind of had to laugh... well some women just want what they cant have! but i dont think women want men who beat them! but some women really just need guys who are not that nice...which doesnt mean they like to be beaten! they just want someone who stands up and is more acting like a man than a teenie boy...its nice to get a bath or flowers and stuff.... but i think if u do that all day long, its getting too much! plus its nothing special anymore...it also gets boring! i like to get flowers and stuff...but if i got them every day it wouldnt be something special anymore...hmmm but u always should honor a woman and respect her!!just take it a little slow ;-) good luck
2006-07-23 13:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by simi1808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow men like you are rare now a days, a woman should consider herself lucky to have a man like you in her life. To answer your question though, maybe they were abused as a child and it is what they are accustomed to and they don't know how to react when they meet a man that is good to them, so they get scared and run. Afraid that a man won't like her when they find out they she has been abused. I hope this helps you understand a little more. by the way how old are you?
2006-07-23 13:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women dump the good guy because they are use to having a relationship with the bad guy and its hard to accept the fact that they have the perfect guy right in front of their eyes.
2006-07-23 13:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg! U R a sweetheart!
Most women will stay with whoever they are with unless they are 100% sure they have an imidiate alternitive. we mostly jump relationship 2 relationship, unlees one is completely unbarable. Girls just want to feel secure, protected, and loved. You seem like a great guy, keep that up! :-)
2006-07-23 13:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little advice keep up the nice routine but show some PDA to your girl it makes them feel even more appreciated. When in front of their friends girls want to have something for show so make it look like your only interested in her and be there for her when she needs you because sometimes a girl needs a friend and not just a gentleman.
2006-07-23 13:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women cannot, CANNOT handle someone being nice to them for long because of their extreme insecurity. Their brains are in constant rage and misery so if you don't give them an excuse to cheat or leave, they will do it for you.
2006-07-23 13:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignorance.
2006-07-23 13:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because when a man does that it scares women becuz women are not used to being treated like that. we are used to being treated like S*it. keep looking you will find the right woman
2006-07-23 13:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by funlovingcaligurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋