i am also a football player on a schlorship should i try to make it work or leave her alone and start fresh she is fine and everything but i just find myself getting tired of her alot lately and im confused i fell kind of weird asking this question on the internet but i need other opinions instead of friends and family
2006-07-23 13:15:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, only you can work things like this out for yourself, the bond between a boyfriend and his girl is sacred mate, so don't do nothing stupid, you owe it to her to talk things through and work things out amiably.
2006-07-23 13:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Gordon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are black men so fickle? Can't we stay faithful at all? what first attracted you to this girl and why have you lost the attraction? as you see I have no answers for you only questions. It is obvious that you have lost interest because you are moving off to college so she does not fit into your world anymore. Besides you are just keeping up the very damaging image of the capricious black male, not your fault just a psychologically inhereted condition. Do yourself and her a favour tell her how you feel. It will hurt but she will be better off for it. Your motivations at most are nothing short of selfishness
2006-07-23 20:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mark B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for other chicks then don't lead on your girl or that would be wrong.....if you love her then you have to make sacrafices to make it work....remember she was with you before this sports scholarship happened, you're kind of a big dog right now so just keep that in mind!!!! Have fun though, but if you have doubts dude talk to her first about it, and keep in mind im a Texas Longhorn so unless you go there I'll be rooting against you this year, but good luck with your chick!!!
2006-07-23 20:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Gumball Popcorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to see other people. You both seem too young to be tied down to one person. High school is over, live a little. After a couple of years I'm sure you'll see her again and maybe things will work out then.
2006-07-23 20:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Berdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like you already know the answer to your own question... a man in your position needs to be focused on yourself for right now, even more so because you have allot on your plate.. you cant make someone else happy if you are not happy yourself. so by you even asking this question, should tell you that you want to leave her. you should go do what you gatta do until you really know that you are ready for a relationship!
2006-07-23 20:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by SARA F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that as long as things are going well then you should let the relationship continue... but you said that you're getting tired of her a lot lately... so you might want to see why she's getting so annoying then tell her to stop doing whatever it is that's annoying you... if she doesnt stop then you might wanna leave the relationship... but i say if everything is going fine then you should stay in the relationship...
2006-07-23 20:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with her then you will not have to make it work out. But if you find that you don't miss her when she away from you then maybe to start fresh.
2006-07-23 20:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by diamondblue382000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is quite obvious that you are a selfish young man who brings all of the 'brothers' and the 'sisters' into disrepute. You ought to be ashamed of yourself..........after you've done the dirty on her whilst you're at college. After all, what they don't know can't hurt them.
2006-07-23 23:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Tom B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur gettin tired of her so why not cool it off for awhile n see what happens ur in college now n maybe u need a break
2006-07-23 20:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her, tell her that you need time because college has you stressed out lately. say yall need to take a break from each other
2006-07-23 20:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋