When you call or talk to a girl what all should you talk about so you dont sit there looking stupid. What does she want you to talk about. How can I keep a conversation going and that it is not just dragging on, and on. With nothing really intresting to say.
2006-07-23 12:51:55 · 13 answers · asked by Myspace_Addict 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How well the conversation goes is what tells you whether or not you two click. It lets you know what you have in common, if your personalities are compatible, etc. So don't force it.
2006-07-23 12:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your just getting to know her find out her interest, what makes her happy, sad, find out about her family. Ask tons of questions (about anything really). Questions always lead a conversation in a particular direction. If you already know her, ask how her days was. Or find out if she dealing with anything that she needs to get off her chest, like family problems or something. Just don't be afraid to ask questions. The more you converse with someone the easier it is to do and the more you learn about the person. Also it's easier to talk to people face to face.
2006-07-23 19:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by missy128m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find common interests and talk about that. If you think you are about to run out of things to say then leave or do something to end the conversation. Better to leave her with the memory of a good conversation and wanting more then to leave her thinking you are one boring dude.
2006-07-23 19:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she has been up to lately.
Ask her if she has seen a certain movie. Did she like it?
Ask her what her favorite TV shows are.
Tell her what you did yesterday or planning to do tomorrow.
Ask her what music and bands does she like.
Tell her a funny story about yourself or a friend.
ANY of these kind of things can spin off into a good conversation.
Talk about actors you like and don't like, etc.
School? Job? Good or bad? Why?
Where does she like to go on vacation?
Her favorite fast food restaurant....
Talk about something funny about your pet.
2006-07-23 20:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should think of some things you can talk about BEFORE you make the call.
When you run out of stuff to talk about - end the call.
You can always call her back again when you have more to say.
2006-07-23 19:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by K g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that she is the one you have your eyes on and that doesn't always requires words. For most girls chocolates speak, and there are a bunch of other things that are fun to find out about them too. Now go get her!
2006-07-23 19:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i had this problom with my bf 2 what i talked about was
1. what does she like 2 do as sports or hobbies
2. what does she look 4 in a guy
3. what music does she like( see if u have ne thing in commen)
4. whats her favorite color
5. what does she wanna be when shes older
i hope this helps and good luck!
2006-07-23 19:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by caitlyn's so cool {lol} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk about movies, things you both like to do.When you see her tell her she looks pretty. Or what you like about her. What her plans r as far as the future. There are alot of things you could talk about and if you can't think of anything take her to a movie then afterwards you could talk about the movie!!!!
2006-07-23 19:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all find out what she likes. Like music, food, movie or other things - one way or another there must be something that both of you have in common. Then from there you could wing it.
2006-07-23 19:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by Zail-Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about things that interests her. Talk about yourself, your day. Ask her how her day was. Make it sound like you really care.
2006-07-23 19:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋