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He is terrified of it. The 5 month old went through right away.

2006-07-23 12:49:41 · 14 answers · asked by Casper 3 in Pets Cats

I guess I should have added that he's been going outside for 9 years. We've always left the sliding glass door opened 24/7. Our electric bill is huge. We put the pet door in to help cut the bill down.

2006-07-24 02:18:54 · update #1

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I think probably if he watches the younger cat go through it enough he'll realize the new fangled gadget isn't as dangerous as it looks. LOL

2006-07-23 13:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 2 · 4 1

I would rather her come to me with this problem, then have her shave. Shaving just increases the growth in the hairs. It like stubble on a mans face. He shaves in the morning, and by the evening her already has stubble appearing. Shaving, as you said waste time, and in the long run is more uncomfortable than waxing. I hope that when my daughter is around that age, she won't even bother shaving, because if you wax from the start of your hair removing days, the longer it takes for the hair to grow back. I can go for months w/o waxing because I've waxed since 14. I feel, as a mom that 13 is a bit young for a bikini wax, but, I wouldn't want my child to unhappy with her appearance, or self conscious about anything. Try asking your mom can you go to a salon and get waxed. Even show her your post. I would let my daughter get the bikini wax, just for the summer time, though. Ask your mom can you get it done for the summer time so you can wear you swim suits. Good luck.

2016-03-27 04:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, perhaps I believe in tough love, but I would shove the cat through the door a few times, then leave him outside until he gets hungry enough to come inside.

Sometimes cats won't do things when people are watching. They're shy like that. Perhaps you can try just leaving him alone for a little while with the door.

2006-07-23 13:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kats 5 · 0 0

Let him get used to it for a few days. Older cats have a hard time when something in their environment changes. He will see the kitten going through and check it out. If he still won't go through try putting his favorite toy on a string. Put the string through the door and tug on it with him there. slowly pull it through the kitty door. It may take a few tries but he will eventually follow it through. Most of all it will take patience and encouragement to let him overcome his fear and use his new door to the world.

2006-07-23 14:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by songbird092962 5 · 0 0

You'll just need to help him at first. Hold it open for him and encourage him to go through -- maybe placing a treat on the other side. Then, hold it open and encourage him to come back through to you. Pet him and tell him how smart he is. Do this a few times before letting the door touch his back as he goes through. Let this happen a few times. Then graduate to just barely getting it started for him. You get the idea.

We put one in and my six had no experience with them. My oldest was the last to learn. We helped him as above. Also, the other cat will also be teaching him -- they do learn from each other.

2006-07-23 12:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by 6TwistedWhiskers 5 · 0 0

leave the cat inside (have someone hold it there) and show it how the door opens then go outside and hold a treat or tuna there until it comes out. then do the same to show it how to get back in. cats are smart, it will get it if you do this a few times.
Jordan

2006-07-23 12:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jordan 1 · 0 0

put down a trail of food leading to the door and the bowl of food on the other side. when hes hungry enough, he'll figure it out.

2006-07-23 12:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Put his very favorite treat on the other side of the door.

2006-07-23 12:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0 0

One decision every cat owner must make is whether or not their feline friend will be allowed outdoors. Many people feel that keeping their kitties indoors deprives them of a full life. However, one must consider that the average life span of a totally outdoor cat is about a year and a half, while a totally indoor cat is expected to live upwards of 15 years.

Aside from the obvious dangers of car fan belts and tires, toxic plants, dogs and cruel people, there are many hidden dangers to cats allowed outdoors. Life-threatening dangers include:

* Diseases for which we currently do not have vaccines for (Feline Aids),
or vaccines that are not reliably effective
(Feline Leukemia, Feline Infectious Peritonitis).

* Heartworm. Yes, it is true that a cat can get heartworm, through mosquito bites. Shorthairs are at higher risk than longhairs.

* Antifreeze. Its sweet taste is irresistible to cats, and a cat who has walked through a small pool of antifreeze and cleans its paws has ingested a fatal dose.

* Skin cancer. Light colored kitties (especially white) are at risk for skin cancer of the ears due to exposure to direct sunlight.

* Hanging/choking. Those neat little cat collars which do not provide breakaway or stretch releases have killed many a cat.

* Fighting among outdoor kitties not only spreads disease, it can result in painful abscesses which require medical attention (an untreated abscess can kill a cat). Unaltered tom cats are prime candidates for such fighting, not to mention they will impregnate any and all receptive females they come upon.

* Toxoplasmosis. A single celled organism that cats can ingest while eating prey that has been exposed. Not only can it kill a cat, it is contagious to people and can result in severe birth defects to human babies whose mothers are exposed during pregnancy. Wearing rubber gloves while handling litter pan duties and gardening is highly recommended for pregnant women. Finding another home for your cherished pet is NOT necessary.

As if that is not enough food for thought, consider our wildlife. Cats kill many songbirds each year, plus rabbits, squirrels, mice, chipmunks, reptiles, etc. Most areas are not overrun with these creatures, and cats are not performing a necessary service by killing them.

Being neat creatures, cats bury their feces. It's not a lot of fun to be digging in your garden and get a handful of that! Not to mention that kitty excrement is not an effective fertilizer, or that your neighbor will probably not see the humor of their gardens being dug up and destroyed...

Non-life threatening things outdoor cats are exposed to can serve to make our human lives miserable also. Fleas, ticks and mites would just as soon bite you as they would the family pet, and getting them out of your home is expensive and time-consuming. These parasites can also carry life-threatening diseases. Kitties who come inside with motor oil or used chewing gum on their bodies and sit on your antique sofas cause quite a stir, also. Ringworm is sometimes contracted by a cat while outdoors digging in the dirt; this fungus is very contagious to humans.

Cats do not observe property lines by any means. To them, a fence is something to climb on, not a barrier. Your neighbor may not have a problem shooting, trapping or poisoning your family pet.

There are so many obvious benefits to keeping your cat indoors. Indoor cats are no lazier or less happy than their outdoor counterparts. Provide a window perch for them, put out a bird feeder for entertainment. There are so many toys available for cats now, both the interactive kind (a stick with a string with something fun on the end), and the toys that do not require human intervention. Avoid toys which have small parts that can come off and cause choking or gastrointestinal problems. A paper grocery bag will provide hours of entertainment for your kitty. A scratching post of some kind is a necessity.

An indoor/outdoor cat can easily be made a totally indoor cat with perseverance on your part. They may resent their confinement for a short time, but they will adjust. Another option is a safe outdoor enclosure. It must be carefully constructed, as you need to keep other animals OUT, as well as your cat in. Screen porches work well, too, just be sure to give the kitty some way to get back into your house if they need to.

Many cats live their entire lives without ever setting foot on grass. The difference in their life expectancy as well as quality of life speaks for itself.

2006-07-23 16:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by lady_crotalus 4 · 0 0

Put food outside it or a trail of food. Or you can kinda push it through.

2006-07-24 03:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by Viki H 2 · 0 0

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