im meeting this girl from myspace, shes very hot, 9.5 out of 10, im not bad looking, but i have a beer belly :( when we meet were going swimming so im really nervous that im done for, i have a great personality and im very funny though, i was just wondering if this belly thing will ruin me, thanks!
2006-07-23 12:43:52 · 25 answers · asked by james P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax, remember she said yes to you, so she's already looked passed that. Really, she's going based on your personality, and your looks (if you've already exchanged pics) Just be charming, and flirt a bit with her. You'll be fine.
2006-07-23 12:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel self-conscious about your "beer belly", why would you agree to meet someone for the first time at a swimming pool. Because you already feel threatened by her looks, you are already putting yourself in a pretty stressful situation. So, you have a great personality, don't over do it. Don't try to be too funny. Don't be too friendly. Don't overcompensate for your insecurities. It will only turn her off. Confidence despite your faults and shortcomings will woo her. Be calm, Be natural, Be yourself. Good Luck!
2006-07-23 12:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good personality goes a long way, but a regular dose of gym work couldn't hurt. Do some situps, drink less beer, be yourself, and good luck!
2006-07-23 12:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't judge a book by its' cover,so i don't think a beer gut is
a major factor in this.the important question is "how do you see
yourself?"if you have a high self-esteem,make friends easily,
have the respect of your peers and she likes to be around you;
i'd say you have nothing to worry about.it sounds like you've
already made a strong favorable impression on her,go for it!
2006-07-23 13:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by nightfishsnake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a lady n i'm shy til u get to understand me. i will take a seat at college quiet n not talk with everyone n wen ppl talk with me i'm getting fearful...... yet when ik u n were friends i'm so a lot more suitable outgoing .... I in basic terms get fearful round more recent people n i'm getting scared..... adult males always calls me attractive n cute cuz i'm shy, short, were given a large body, im sweetheart til u piss me off, stuff like that......
2016-12-10 14:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by briana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a tan the tanner u r the thinner u will look n a personality can save u if she isnt worried bout what all her friends say n she isnt shallow i wish u luck
2006-07-23 12:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. Drank the 6 pack ended up with a 24!!!
She should like you for who you are not what you look like!!!
2006-07-23 12:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by ouwx104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your personality is all that matters! A small gut is better then no gut really! Just keep Smiling at her !!!
2006-07-23 12:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't like ya just because you have a beer belly, kick her to the curb & find someone else
2006-07-23 12:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the beely thing won't ruin u. Be your usual sweet self and u got her. If not you don't need her anyway.
2006-07-23 12:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by mirkyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋