He will be turning 17 in August and she just turned 21 in May.
2006-07-23 12:39:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 17 he is still a minor in the majority of states. She could be playing with fire. Have you noticed, females have been in the news lately for sleeping with male minors. If this is in a work situation, they both could be fired for sexual harassment, not from each other, but the rest of the staff!
Best to wait that 1 plus. If they truly care for each other they can wait.
2006-07-31 11:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Great! I think it's great. Why should there always be a 25 year old guy and a 20 year woman? Why couldn't there be 17 year old guy and a 21 year girl? I see no problem, love is blind, you don't know when it come or how it will happen. Age is nothing, just a number, and besides it's only 4 years.
2006-07-23 19:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Faust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The year difference really isn't that bad but 21 and only 17 she has the freedom to go out to the bars and experience all of that were as he will be left behind then when its his turn she will be over it.it really depends on the couple and what they feel for each other best of luck to them.
2006-07-23 19:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by lil'bit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might not work after sometime coz guys that age are somewhat immature and too young for a 21 year old girl.... a four year difference is A LOT ... when the guy turns 25 and the girl 29 , it might work out then ... but not now
this is just my opinion... just what i've seen.. it might work extremely well for the people ur talking about ...
2006-07-23 19:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that age is pretty much ridiculous. You fall for who you fall for, age should NOT matter in my opinion. this is a lil different tho because of the fact that she's over 18 and he's not yet. my opinion would be to stay friends but close for another year until they can legally hit it off and see if a tru relationship forms.
2006-07-23 19:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by shak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if the 17 year old's parents know about it.and if they don't.and they find out about it. they will be sending that 21year old to jail for dating a minor.cause its against the law in most states for an adult to date a minor.without the parents knowing about it.
2006-07-23 19:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations!
2006-07-23 19:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No big deal. I'd rather date a girl 4 years older than me than dating a girl who is 4 inches taller than me.
2006-07-23 19:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by itsdefinitelyme31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see it as a bad idea, age doesnt matter here..
Level of maturity does, if he's mature enough to handle the relationship then grate !!
She might think that the boy is a kid.. whatever
I think if that they get along well, then that's pretty cool !!
2006-07-23 19:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by Krisztian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 21 yr old can go to jail for child molestation or rape, so as long as u dont get caught, go 4 it
2006-07-23 19:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by JUICY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋