i just asked out a girl and she wants me to call her. it's just i don't know what to say. please help me.

Answer 1

"Hi, how was your day?"

Answer 2

Any conversation you may have must be spontaneous. A prepared speech will not do. Fix it in your mind that she is only human...just like you. She is nothing to be afraid of. She is at least a little bit interested...otherwise she wouldn't have given you her number.
You can start by telling her you appreciate that she was nice enough to give you her number. Don't try to come on too strong and act like you're some honcho stud. Be sweet and you can even let on that you are a little shy. Be honest. Ask her what she likes...do she have any hobbies, does she like school, what are her favorite subjects...least favorite? How dose she get along with her parents and stuff like that. Don't rush your questions and really pay attention to her answers. Always listen when she talks.

This is a good way to start. If she is easy to talk to you should feel much better as you go along.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Hello or Hi is always a good start. Then move to simple conversation starters like 'how was your day?' Make sure you be yourself. Maybe you could mention that your pleased she asked you to call her. But the most important thing when talking to a girl is to listen to what she has to say and pretend to be interested even if you're not. Ask her about herself eg. what her interests are, what activities does she get into etc. I would also suggest asking her if maybe she would like to do something with you the next day, this way you don't have to find an excuse to ring her the next day. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Well,..women are like job interviews, (sort of), you gotta try to sell yourself in order to get that job. Some women like to talk until their tongues practically fall off. In that sense, you just gotta act like your interested in what she's saying, like "oh really", "you don't say", "I didn't know that" "how interesting", "thats cool" you know stuff like that, women loves when a man listens and shows interest. Keep the conversation simple, you need to know what type of woman your working with because on the other hand, you 've got the silent types that like to listen. First and foremost "Be Yourself". Just like a white sale, most women can spot a phony a mile away. Basically keep it real. The most sexy thing that a woman appreciates from a man is when you get at their intellect. Find out her likes and dislikes in certain areas such as movies, culture, politics, interests, hobbies. Then go from there by adding in your two cents. Most men are physical creatures, were as women are more emotional, so you need to stimulate her mind, tell her what your into, and your goals. Women like a man with security and ambition. You don't necessarily have to have alot of money but if she knows you have goals that will have her sticking around. If your the class clown, try humor. If you get a woman to laugh, your in there bro.

Answer 5

Just be yourself, and try to not be a dick. The first conversation is the most difficult by far. My fiancee & I met on line through a Yahoo cats group and talked via email for a couple of months before we exchanged numbers and tried to talk on the phone. We were both surprised when the first call was, to put it mildly, a disaster. We quickly emailed each other and asked "what happened?" and both agreed that we were just nervous, so we decided to try it again ... and the second call was great. Before we knew it we were spending hours on the phone together, then we met face to face and it was love at first sight. I eventually moved from California to Texas to be with her and never looked back.

Keep it simple, keep it real, keep it honest, don't try to be someone you're not. Understand that you're both going to be nervous and trying to make a good impression on each other, and if at first you don't succeed ... try, try again. Good luck!

Answer 6

Just try to keep the conversation going by asking her questions about herself. Obviously you dont want it to seem like an interogation, but just try to have a friendly chat and learn more about her. And if you notice there's something she's really interested in or excited about (say a favorite hobby or activity) ask her more about it, she'll probably be happy to talk about it (and remember it too, it could be really useful later).

Answer 7

well if you asked her out there was obviously a reason. Don't be nervous when you call, girls can tell, just be calm and simply start a small but interesting convo. don't make it too long,it may become overwhelmingly long and nonproductive. just make sure she knows why you are interested in her and just be urself. nothing makes a gurl happier than an honest man. Hopefully that helps!

Answer 8

ok--i had the same exact situation as you. When i first started going out with my 2nd boyfriend...we had NO idea what to talk about!! I didnt even know that much about him--so I was trying to think of a way 2 get 2 kno him better...without akward silences. So we played a little "game"...he would ask me a question..for example..(wuts ur favorite color), and i would answer and then ask him the same one..and we kept taking turns asking and answering different questions...and the good thing about it was...is that we got 2 kno each other better and we got 2 c wut we had in common..and we didnt have akward silences....hope things workout 4 u...good luck! :)

Answer 9

Follow this advise and it will be fine

Call and say hows it going?
She will say something
you say "I thiught it would be fun to get a bite to eat and catch a movie,how does that sound to you?
She will say great
You say I wanted to ask what kind of food you like and what kind of movies you like?
She will say it dos't matter
you say yes it does I want you to have a good time
she will say ok,what about...
Then talk about music and stuff like that.
Show up on time and "smile a lot"

Answer 10

Ask her questions about her: What did you do today? What was the best part of your weekend? Ask her open ended questions and feed off her answers. She'll think you're the best thing since sliced bread if you are interested in HER and you don't sit there and talk about yourself! :-) Take a couple of deep breaths and go for it!

Answer 11

Just call her and ask her what she's doing and just try to find out what she likes to do and what her interests are.