what I can do with a stepson of 17 years old who is extremly unrespectfull and dad didin't do anything about

Answer 1

Think about going to your husband and getting a commitment and money out of him to send his boy to military school to finish his high school education.

Does the stepson like camping, outdoors stuff, nature and wilderness? Have I got a deal for you -- camping with a genius who WILL change his attitude, a pro, someone I have trained in my own mentoring course. Email me.

Don't try to scare him with prison of act tough --he'll weasel out of it and tune you out. His MOTHER taught him this defiance, and the divorce has put him in a state of grief from which he hasn't recovered. A lot of that is YOUR fault for sealing the tomb of his original family by marrying his father. So don't try any direct power trips yourself, you're right, they won't work.

Your husband left is wife in charge of raising this boy, and she f*ck*ed it up. Outside help is gonna be needed. Have you got any cousins or brothers who are great storytellers and who can spend time with the troublesome stepson? That would help, and if so, don't pump them to squeal what they did or what the boy said.

Answer 2

The truth is that you can't do anything about it. He is not your son, and that will never change. Talk to your husband, and if he doesn't see what needs to be corrected, then you will have to make the best of a tough situation. I have been there, and I know what you are going through. Stay strong.

Answer 3

first of all even though it should never be condoned you need to understand that at this age its expected males are trying to stroke their male ego and assert dominance. but this is your house and you are the queen and noone should be allowed to dominate or disrespect you. you need to express to your husband to get a spine and deal with the both of yours son ( notice i say he is yours son as well) if he doesnt support you in this you might have to pack out to moms and back up a threat that you are first in the marriage. my wife has bio children and i have bio children in this our second marriage. although i love my kids my wife is first in all thing short of life and death situations. and none of these five kids have a chance in our house to disrespect either of us becuase we stand together and if your husband doesnt stand with you then you need to consider options becuase your husband is teaching his son to be a boy not a man. good luck and assert your dominance as the woman and the queen . from a male perspective, i even know the woman is the boss of the house.... good luck

Answer 4

Boot his butt right out the door and tell him when he learns some respect and is willing to follow the rules of the house he can come back.

Answer 5

Ground him. Talk to the father. Talk to your stepson about what his problem is. It's not cool...tell him you don't appreciate it and will beat his *** if he keeps going.

Answer 6

The first thing you should do is go to school or something? What the hell is unrespectful? You mean disrespectful?

How do you expect anyone to respect you or even take you serious?

Answer 7

Send him to Dr Phil. Dr Phil will fix him, and send him back, all shiney and new.
Either that or a plastic baseball bat ;)

Answer 8

Tell his father that you will not allow the disrespect and he has to step up and put an end to it. If he dose not...then one of you will have to go. Make his choice!

Answer 9

DRIVE BY A LOCAL PRISON IN YOUR AREA. STOP THE CAR ASK HIM TO GET OUT AND EXPLAIN TO HIM WHAT THIS PLACE IS ALL ABOUT AND THEN DRIVE OFF .......INFORM HIM THAT PLACES LIKE THESE ARE MADE FOR KIDS LIKE HIM......................................TELL HIM BUBBA AND BIG J WILL BE WAITING FOR HIM........AS SOON AS HE TURNS 18.

THEY'RE PROBABLY LICKING THERE LIPS NOW

Answer 10

talk to the son and the husband. talking is always the first step to problems like this...