I met this guy and we really hit it off and he had a girlfriend. But then i saw him again and then i sent him a text and asked him if he was still going out with his girlfriend and he said no. And we talked (texted) untill 1 am. But now he wont text me back and i think im trying to hard! but i have only text him 3 times. But before i sent the last 2 text he prank called me. So i think he likes me because he always gives me those looks and flirts with me. What should i do??
2006-07-23 12:00:57 · 13 answers · asked by Theater freak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him come to you just chill when he flirts with u flirt back but just chill and go with the flow
2006-07-23 12:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by tropicana484 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have a girlfriend anymore, and you do like him and he is sending you signals that indicate he is interested in you then i suggest you should play the game or 'ok, i'll bite' - its all fun - that's how i got together with my girlfriend - we were acquainted on our way home from school through my sister, she liked my sense of humour and i liked hers, we hit it off , talked i got the feeling she liked me because she was talking to me alot more than she did to other guys and always hanging out with me and two weeks later things kinda fell into place and i asked her out - but she did talk about it - she asked me if i had a girlfriedn i said no, and well..u get the point - if you really like the dude, dont try too hard but be straight forward and open - the worst that could happen is that 'nothing happens at all' - but u will regret it if you shrink away from it and don't seize an opporuntunity - have fun flirting but don't flirt 'too long' and let things move forward or it often fades or comes across as 'just fooling around' - you should talk to the guy a little more and see how he is around you and when you're comfortable enough and have a strong feeling that he is interested he will probably ask you out or there is no harm in you bringin up the topic or dropping hints *but guys are thick and so subtle hints dont always have the impact you would like* - so its often good to just be out going and ask if he likes you - good luck.
*PS: or yes as someone has said 'he could' be messing with your head, find out what kind of guy he is' - dont let yourself get messed with - its kind of like take chances but dont be afraid of dissapointment because its a part of life - u can only learn from your mistakes - talking face to face is also a must in moving things forward so he gets to know the whole you*
2006-07-23 19:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same thing basically. I met this guy at a camp 8 hours away from my home, and the last 2 days of the camp we really started talking and, basically, our personalities clicked. He flirted with me quite a bit the first day, and he has my email right now, so if he doesn't email me I'm gonna call him. I suggest you tell the guy that you like him. That's what I plan to do. I think it almost obvious the guy likes you. After you confess, the outcome is up to him. Just hang in there!
2006-07-23 19:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him in person, face to face and ..really try it(Im not typing just for poooiiinnnsts
And confront him about being honest about the gf issue. If he single like he says he is, then go for it!
That way, you can do other things besides --text
until 1 am! hehe, good luck
2006-07-23 19:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by silver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kinda is happening to me right now this guy is sending me mixed signals and i thought i was trying to hard annd that was y he was pushing away.just trust ur intuition and dont try to hard if he really likes u -u wont have to try to hard to get him
2006-07-23 19:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a "crush" be such a priority. Relax...if he is truly interested, he'll show it . Meanwhile, have fun and develop your character.
2006-07-23 19:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...well uh that might not be a good idea, since he has a girlfriend...you might wanna stay away..that girl might kick ur ***
2006-07-23 19:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by blueiswhatido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's messing with your head...ditch him/forget about him..just cus he texted you back..it doesnt mean anything...guys are jerks like that..
2006-07-23 19:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by just another kid. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and talk face to face. it'll kill his ability to hide his true feelings. from there, use your "female i-see-through-you powers"(sorry, no better way to put it) to discern his true feelings for you. if he likes you, go head...
2006-07-23 19:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him about it and then go for it and ask him out
good luck
2006-07-23 19:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by volley ball lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋