i went ot sumer school with my bf and we broke up for alil while but then on the last day we had to put all the stuff up so he helped me with this table and he asked me out and i said yeah after that we stated in the room and made-out for a lil bit and we made out bfore that two then it was the last day of school for him b-cuz he went on vacaion with his famliy and his b-day was on sunday so on monday i called him up and wished him a happy b-day and i told him to call me back but i still havent got a call from him and its been like 3weeks and i know he is back but everytime we break up he still wants me back but i just dont want to be hurt any more im not strong enoght to what should i do?
2006-07-23 11:48:37 · 14 answers · asked by katie teegarden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dont you try asking him? ask yourself a question is he WORTH the pain and confusion you are going through RIGHT now?? good luck to you
2006-07-23 11:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by trouble comes a knockin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you need to like yourself a whole lot better than this! You're getting nowhere trying to keep this relationship going. He's clearly not good for you if he won't return calls, and it sounds like he just wants to make out with you when he has no one else at the moment. You deserve much better than that. I think its time for you to take a break from having any kind of bf right now. Hang out with friends and pursue other interests or hobbies. Start enjoying life as a young single girl with her whole life ahead of her! Enjoy the person you are and don't worry about having a bf. The right guy will come along when you have enough confidence in yourself not to care about it!
2006-07-23 19:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by rosecitylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me think long and hard about this...STAY AWAY FROM HIM...obviously he only really wants you when you're not together. It's pretty retarded but sometimes guys're like this...want what we don't have, not wanting what we do. I think he's stupid but just tell him it's over and DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIM AGAIN. If you do you'll always be his "backup" for when he gets dumped by the next one. You don't want that to happen. Tell him it's not going to happen again. Hope I help a little.
2006-07-23 18:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really your boyfriend, he would have called before now. You don't have to break up to not be going with him. He has moved on. You need to move on. He is just using you for making out and having available until he can find something better.
2006-07-23 18:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by wbecca52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say hes cheating hun. My ex didnt call me for 2 weeks and he was cheating. Go to his house and ask him and if he says no then ask why he hasnt called u. U should be able to tell if hes lieing, if not then u dont know him like u think u do. I think u should find another guy, then he'll realize how much he misses u, it always works for me!! good luck
2006-07-23 18:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by *Chelsie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is not making contact with you is that not telling you something,if i were you i would forget him and like the old saying there are plent more fish in the sea,so forget about him go out and enjoy yourself and find another nice boyfriend.
2006-07-23 19:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by prowler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are the standby girl friend - either accept the status or find someone new!
2006-07-23 18:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by lunapilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know what to do. Break up with him for good!! Find someone who will be true to you. You deserve better.
2006-07-23 18:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by ghw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol he just wanted some before he left summer school.
You got PLAYED
2006-07-23 18:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by Steve S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. you're better than that and you know you deserve than somebody playing with your feelings. take it from me you should not be treated like a toy. nobody should be able pick you up and play with you with they want to and use you.
2006-07-23 18:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by flirt_love_baseball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋