well let me get right to it, i have a girl friend that i love, she lives with me, im 14 years older than she is. i think she is a very good person with unlimited potential. id love to get to the point where i could ask her to marry me, but thats a long long way away.she tells me she loves me so much, but not long ago i read in her diary that she lets me read freely when she is not mad at me for pushing her in a positive directio in the diary, it said some other guy was the only man she ever loved, and later she asked herself what was she getting out of this deal. did it make me mad to read it you bet.because i work two jobs, right now she works none. i pay all bills, give her full use of one of my cars. buy her things even when i cannt aford it at the time. the second thing is she had hard life that she is tring to move away from, but has not cut away from everyone that keeps her tied down to her past and from moving on to a better future like she told me when she was really down
2006-07-23 11:10:42 · 11 answers · asked by jj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say there is a 14 yr difference in age but don't give ages. Big difference if she is 16 and you are 30 or if she is 40 and you're 54.
2006-07-23 11:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by maxinebootie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by what you stated i am guessing that she can't be older than 25. well i think she is mainly using you, to escape from her pass hard life. but again it also depends on age here, of her. and mentioning getting out this deal too, may be telling you a lot ,just love you as you, but is not in love with you
2006-07-23 11:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by tendertrex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really would'nt say age is the issue,it more like immaturity.Sounds like you're her father figure more than her BF.
2006-07-23 11:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Troy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is taking advantage of you to be honest.
2006-07-23 11:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_2_little_man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is she.. cause .. she could just be too young and immature for this relationship.
2006-07-23 11:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Imani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better wake up cus she's playing you some day soon she'll be gone
2006-07-23 11:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by wilco254 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just using you
2006-07-23 11:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's using you and you are buying into it hook, line, and sinker.
2006-07-23 11:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-23 11:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Thumbs Up Fairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋