My friend and I were hanging out yesterday and her boyfriend and our other friend, a guy who is also single, were going to come over to her house. And I was teasing her about how her and her boyfriend were gonna make out the whole time. So she said I should make out with our friend. But I have a boy friend. She said I should because my boyfriend cheated on me like 3 months ago. I forgave him and all and we're going out still and all that. My friend that she wanted me to make out with is friends with my boyfriend too so yea. She was trying to get me to make out with him all day? Was I wrong to not make out with him? And should I tell my boyfriend what she was trying to do?
2006-07-23 10:54:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!! You are perfect!! and your boyfriend should be so proud of you! I know I am!
What you did was absolutley right.....You proved that you had respect for yourself, your boyfriend and me.
The best way to get into trouble is to listen to someone else tell you what you should do and not what you know is the right thing to do.
Keep being just the way you are!
2006-07-23 10:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell ur boyfriend what she was trying to do. Why make a big deal out of it. No. U were perfectly right not to make out with this guy who was friends with everyone in the group(including ur bf). I'd ask ur buddy what her problem was. Does she want u and ur man to break up? Because when u forgive someon for something, and then get them back for the offense u forgave them for, that sends a mixed message.
2006-07-23 10:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were right in not making out with the other guy. Your morals and values are what should be important here, not what some moronic friend thought you should do. There's no reason for you to do something just because your friend thinks it's cool.
In your situation, I'd tell my boyfriend for sure. That way, if he ever found out later, he won't think that you were trying to hide the whole thing from him. Hiding things like that just make you look guilty, imo.
Either way, I think you did the right thing.
2006-07-23 10:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Oh no 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right not to make out with the other boy. If someone cheats on you, and you cheat on them for revenge, are you not just as bad as they are?
Good Girl! Bad Friend.
Your friend my be a bad influence on you on one hand, on the other she might have just been trying to exact revenge for you. Sometimes friends do the wrong things for the right reasons.
You have a good head on your shoulders.. keep using it. You give me hope that today's children are not all spoiled and selfish.
2006-07-23 10:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not tell your boyfriend unless you want him to dislike your friend. I think that you made the right decision. First off never make out with someone you dont know. Second never let anyone talk you into doning something you do not want to do.
2006-07-23 10:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by texashoneypot_25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl no! As long as your relationship is good with you don't let your friends mess it up. She might be settin you up. Right after you make out with this guy she might runand tell your boyfriend. You were right. I would start wondering about your friend trying to make you make out with someone else.
2006-07-23 11:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by nestleangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you were not wrong and it might be a good idea to tell your boyfriend. It was wrong what your boyfriend did but this would not justify it, however, if he ever does it again you should probably reivaluate your relationship. Otherwise, stay true to eachother.
2006-07-23 10:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, now back away from her as a girlfriend, she's wants to get you in trouble, she has no respect for you and don't bother telling your boyfriend what she tried to do this will only add him to the mess. You can handle it yourself. She doesn't want what's best for you.
2006-07-23 10:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by donna k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were right for two reasons 1 you didn't want to and 2 all that would have done is cause more trouble with your present relationship. Tell him if you want its not necessary though.
2006-07-23 11:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u made the right decision cuz that boy could have went bak and told yo boyfriend and dat would have caused drama and we dont want that and u should tell yo boyfriend what happened its only the right thing to do
2006-07-23 10:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by mzdbwifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋