see me and my GF have known each other for about a year or 2 and we just resently started datein and well im not sure but we are both deep in love with each other we have every thing in comon and im just not sure if it is true love can somone give me some advide or somthing that will help me figure out if its meant to be becuz im really scared to lose her that is my only fear right now
2006-07-23 10:25:02 · 16 answers · asked by twiztidjuggalo123456789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to all of you that ask how old i am i am 15
2006-07-23 10:34:28 · update #1
you have to ask yourself some questions..such as when i wake up, am i thinking about her already? during the day does my mid wander off and think about her, imagine what shes doing. Do you have the urge to call her just to say hi whats up? when you are together and she has to go do you feel sad inside. honestly i know its really mushy but these are generally things one feels when they meet "the one" other things might include wanting to tell everyone how happy you are, talking to your parents about her, wanting to introduce her to your family as your special someone and not just a friend(as in your at dinner with your parents, and shes there, and even if they already know her you say mom dad, id like to introduce you to(her name here), shes the woman i love. (plus that'll make her positively swoon, its just dripping with romance) If you really are leaning towards true love, has marriage ever been a topic in your conversation with her? have you even considered it yet...if you have talked about it what was her reaction, was she excited about the idea or indifferent? when it comes to stuff like this you really have to be observant of the other person and yourself, good luck i hope yall have a long and loving relationship
2006-07-23 10:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 12⤊ 1⤋
There is one ? that makes it hard to answer your ? How old r u? You may think this has nothing to do with it, but trust me it does. I'm 25 and I've been with my husband for 8 yrs. (Do the math!) At first I could not live without him and thought I would die if I ever lost him. Now 8 yrs. late I'm wondering what I missed out on all those yrs. that I thought I was hopelessly in love. He treats me good and he's a good man, but sometimes I feel like I settled. The worst thing you can do in life is settle, because in the end you you will only hurt yourself trying not to hurt the other person. TRUST ME ON THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just take it slow! Time is all we have!
2006-07-23 17:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first clue is your statement that you are not sure...True love comes from the heart..How do you both feel when you dont see each other for a while? Is all yalls thoughts about the other when you are apart and havent heard from each other in a while? Be very careful not to jump into something if either of you are not sure..Be the best of friends and if it is True Love then God will reveal it to both of your hearts..God bless yall..hope this helps
2006-07-23 17:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear is not good. You may be sensing something about the relationship that might be real or not. One thing I know for sure is that if your fear consumes the relationship with distrust, jealosy anger or anything of that sort you will loose her. Let things happen naturally and openly. If you've known her for a long time then you should trust her. Good Luck
2006-07-23 17:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can anyone say to you? You'll have to go through this on your own, Dude. It's different for everyone, but you have known each other for such a long time, there shouldn't be any surprises left. If you can't live without her, it's real. Give her 100% of yourself and you'll get that much back.
2006-07-23 17:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so afraid. Just try to have fun and if you two are really in love, don't change, don't worry about losing her, just keep doing what you're doing. If she leaves one day, then she leaves. You'll just have to move on like you did every time before. If you're really scared of her leaving, talk to her about it. See if she feels the same way. Good luck! :)
2006-07-23 17:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Life Sucks Get A Helmet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow for now you are to young to be making plans for the rest of your life enjoy being with her and if it is meant to be forever it will be if not take this experience with you if you try to force things they usually break
2006-07-23 17:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by aeval_anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just be yourself...and take a little time to spend with her figuring out if you guys are meant to be together...
All you have to do is be yourself, cause if you act like someone youre not then you will lose her for sure....
2006-07-23 17:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by walter4p46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is pretty young to be thinking about true love. But as you are don't be so serious about it, true love is felt in your gut and its about friendship, trust, respect and passion and if its meant to be those feelings will come without you stressing about it
2006-07-23 17:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Helen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if u r ain't sure of the gurl, plz bolt out. your question is confusing u don't love her and u don't want 2 lose her. plz make up ur mind dude. by the way how old r u?
2006-07-23 17:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by she devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋