He really hates me, I tried to be his friend and we became friends, he then told me he liked me and wanted to go with me, I told my boyfriend this, and my boyfriend asked his bestfriend was that true, and he's denying it
2006-07-23 10:07:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough situation. There is an old quote that goes something like "show me who your friends are, and I'll tell you who you are." This is not to say that your boyfriend is not a decent person, and if this person is is "friend" then he should know what type of person he is by now. If your man chooses to side with his friend, or does not validate your concern, maybe you should re-evaluate how important he is to you and your life. We all want to be accepted, especially by those we care about, but, when that does not happen, it is not ALWAYS fair to point the finger at ourselves. After all, you did nothing but tell the truth!
Good luck!
2006-07-23 10:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
He is jealous of the relationship that you are having and his freind isn't spending as much time with him as he used to. If your boyfriend tolerates this behavior from him, then I would get another boyfriend. If he is asking you out, and your boyfriend is denying it, get another boyfriend. Either way you look at it your boyfriend doesn't trust your word or respect you.
2006-07-23 10:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh, I would discontinue any kind of friendship anything with the guy 'friend'... that is nothing but bad news. If for some reason you BF ends up not believing you, is that what you really want in someone else? And if his friend was really that good of a friend, he wouldn't be trespassing.
2006-07-23 10:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by JustHeather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa! that's intense. but you could just try to ignore it or you could try to let your boyfriend know excpet this time try telling him what hid buddy's been doing. tell him to give you the benefit of the doubt, and if not he must not trust you enough.
as far as the buddy goes set him straight or frame him in anyway possible without looking like your cheating on your boyfriend. At the same time keep your distance at all cost!!
2006-07-23 10:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by red head girl 06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a dick. Plus all of my sisters BFs got to go through me, then we wind up becoming best friends even if they break up, and tell your BF if he really like you he would believe you and do something about it
2006-07-23 10:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really does like you, lets be honest he wouldnt admit it to his friend that he fancies his girlfriend. Just tell him you aren't interested and gauge his reaction, you should be able to tell what his intentions were.
2006-07-23 10:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's afraid of losing his buddy to you its a classic divide and conquer situation.
2006-07-23 10:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tank Stillton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, blow him off....tell your b/f you're getting a lot of attitude from his buddy, and it really bugs you. He'll talk to him/deal with it. If he doesn't, well, reconsider your choice of boyfriends, there...
2006-07-23 10:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope u stay wit your boyfreind u don't wanna mess up freindship thats not the right thing to do
2006-07-23 10:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I can't help ya. My bf's bff is my bro....sooo i have it easy.
Just ignore the jerk! If ur bf luvs u, he'll believe u..
2006-07-23 10:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋