I like this guy that i have known since 1st grade and i wanna get the guts to ask him out but i am afraid. I don't really know if he likes me back. what do i do?? He acts like he likes me!! I don't know what to do! Help!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-23 09:59:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some guys are chicken hearted...you may have to make the first move. these are the guys you want,,,cause they aren't out to hurt you honey, like those other guys that are aggressive. hope this helps...you go girl, take charge.
2006-07-23 10:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tank Stillton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've known him since first grade then you must have things in common to talk about, see how that goes before you put your cards on the table and tell him you like him. Usually you can tell if he flirts back or not. Take care to read the signs that he gives you or you may wind up getting your feelings hurt. If you can't tell, ask a girlfriend if she can tell.
2006-07-23 10:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start by asking him out to something simple... hey do you want to go to the movies... something.
I know all about what it was like to grow up being a shy person... I cannot tell you how many things I probably missed out on because I was to afraid to speak up and say something, anything.
Best of luck!
2006-07-23 10:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by JustHeather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you ought to do is: don't be afraid to speak to him. you're shy on the initiating yet discover out some thing that he likes and initiate up a verbal substitute with him. once you do opt to speak to him, flirt with him slightly. yet to no longer plenty. And if your nonetheless at college what you ought to do is often say hi to him interior the halls. and don't in basic terms refer to him one time... refer to him alot virtually on a daily basis. What you mustn't do precise away Is: bypass overboard on the flirting. Ask him out precise away... that could only scare him away. yet do no longer wait too long as a results of fact yous will only sense like friends... and probably no longer desire to be boyfriend and lady chum.
2016-12-10 12:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! that's like me sort of... what i did was i filrted with him and I was so scared to wonder what to say or do, and he was shy! but when ever opprotuntities came up like the prom or something I'd try asking him. one day my best friend was talking to him and they were best friends too and she'd always ask him stuff about me or is he getting me something for valentine's day and she'd just keep talking to him and IT WORKED !!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!!!! Trust me sometimes getting your best friend to talk to him works great even my other friends chipped in but make sure they're not the type that bugs people or gets on people's nerves or you're toast! trust me it worked because I was competing against his stalker which used to be my friend!!!! no one liked her any way not even my him and we're still together going on 1year and about a half. He was so shy too but it felt so good when he asked me out. hope it helps...... I was too shy to but I would always visit his homeroom in the morning you know out of the ordinary stuff to let him know i felt the same even though in 9th grade i dumped him after a week, but we got back together in 11th and still together now! now were going to college. try it!
2006-07-23 10:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by red head girl 06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he does then just ask him. Even if he says no you will feel better for asking and knowing a definite answer. It will also make things easier for you the next time you like someone.
2006-07-23 10:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really liked you, then he would stop being a punk and ask you out! In the meantime, go talk to some other guy and guareenteed he'll want you after that. Guys want what they can't have.
2006-07-23 10:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey theres no harm asking him at least you'll find out if he likes u or not well if you take my advice good luck and i hope the best for u
2006-07-23 10:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there. jus ask him do he like u n if he say no u jus have to be strong n accept da fact dat he doesn't like u n move on in life cuz there are otha fish in da sea n if he do like i say good job.
2006-07-23 10:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Destiny A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
block your call, call him pretending to be someone else and ask him about yourself, If he knows what you sound like get one of your friends to call him while you listen in on 3 way!!! brilliant i know jp
2006-07-23 10:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋