My fiance travels alot with his job, but now he doesn't want a honeymoon . He says he travels everyday and his idea of a vacation is just staying home. I don't think this is fair because if we stay home we will have all the family around all the time. Is it too much to ask for a 3 day 2 night honeymoon?
2006-07-23 09:56:51 · 10 answers · asked by andrea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
look into a b&b in your area, something that is close enough so he doesn't feel like he's on the road, but romantic enough so you feel like it's a honeymoon.
2006-07-23 10:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't too much to ask of someone that you are planning to spend the rest of your life with. I think that he needs to re-evaluate his priorities in life. You could go somewhere for a few days and stay home for a few days. Traveling for work is not the same as traveling for pleasure (HONEYMOON!!!). You are worth it.
2006-07-23 17:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by absolutelyfab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's fair either. He obviously had a lot of time 2 fall in love with u, so he should be able 2 set aside 2 or 3 days!
2006-07-23 18:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance travels as well and we are still going on a honeymoon. He is absolutely being selfish and should take you into consideration.
3 day 2 night and he's complaining...what a jerk!
2006-07-23 17:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by MARY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop being so cheap. if he is cheap now, it will be worse after you are married. take a cruise, with or without him. tell him you are going on a honeymoon, with or without him. if he doesn't go, take a girlfriend with you. i bet you have done most, if not all the planning for the wedding with little or no help from him.you deserve a honeymoon with him or a after wedding vacation with a girlfriend AT HIS EXPENSE.
2006-07-23 17:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by chapes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely being unreasonable. Just because he travels all the time, you don't and like you said, your families will be bugging you. go somewhere close and very upscale.
2006-07-23 18:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is about compromise.
If his job prevents him from going on a honeymoon now, you can always plan for this at another time.
Be patient.
2006-07-23 20:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by mrsstephaniekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it is not to much to ask. This should be the first of many compormises in your relationship. Good Luck!
2006-07-23 18:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if he will compromise and go at least one hour away from home for at least two nights
2006-07-23 18:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just doesn't sound like marriage material to me.
2006-07-23 17:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋