I recently got a boyfriend. He is so sweet and loves me very much but I never get to see him in person I just IM him a lot. Then almost directly after that I went to a sleepaway camp. There I met a guy a year older than me but still very shy and sweet. I sort of liked him but tried not to let it show too much since I was taken. On the last day of camp he asked to hang out sometime if I ever visited his town. Which I happen to do often and it's a very small town. So I said okay. So now he thinks I'm his girlfriend and he was about to kiss me and my real boyfriend hasn't even kissed me. I managed to find a way out of it but I'm not sure I can do that again. I don't want to hurt either guys but I can't find a way out of it since I'm most likely bound to run into my camp crush somewhere. Should I tell my boyfriend about him? Should I tell my camp crush about my boyfriend? Should I pretend to lose contact with my camp crush? I am so confused. This is goign to be so hard!
What should I do?
2006-07-23 09:54:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, an IM relationship is NOT a REAL boyfriend. You have no idea who you are really talking to and if they are honest with you or not.
Follow the real boy, leave Pinocchio in the dust.
2006-07-23 09:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 18⤊ 6⤋
You sound like a young girl. You should start on the right foot. But first you need to sit down with your boyfriend to find out what the deal is with you both since you hardly see each other. If things work out with you both then you should be fair to the camp crush and let him know that you don't want to get to that level with him and that you just got back with your boyfriend. Let him down easy. He'll be ok.
2006-07-23 09:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ladronaso Delarosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell both boys about what happened. You should have told the camp crush up front about your boyfriend, but you didn't. Now you should definitely find a way to tell the boyfriend. There's nothing worse than getting caught and you'll look pretty bad.
2006-07-23 09:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have no boyfriend if you haven't even met him. Men will tell a woman what he wants them to hear honey. Remember this always: Don't believe anything you hear and only believe half of what you see. Do you understand that. Think about it. I would say go with the one you met, and take it slowly. See if he takes you out for dinner. This world anymore is all about sex, and we have to stick together and bring it back like it used to be. Honest, loving relationships are very hard to find. I am still looking at 45 years old. I have learned from my experience that there is only one person besides God that you can trust and that one person is you!
2006-07-23 10:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by naturally_loveable_43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the camp crush is just that - a crush! Tell him you have a boyfriend and that you would like to be friends.
2006-07-23 09:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sassienuf4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should choose the one you can see. Remeber one fact, people are very different in person, the computer shows no emotion but someone in front of you showing they care is so much sweeter and feels so much better than waiting for the next text message to come in.
2006-07-23 09:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by my4x4truck454 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you going to ever meet this internet guy? if not then he is just some guy you talk to on here.... having a real boyfriend who is close by is more comforting... i'd go with the camp guy
2006-07-23 09:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out who you would rather be with, alternatively tell your camp guy that it was a miss understanding.
2006-07-23 09:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your with someone and then you went away and had feelings for someone else then it goes to show you that the guy your with now is not the guy for you,beak up with your boy friend and tell him your not wanting a relationship and then you can move on to your crush
2006-07-23 10:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell your real bf if you want. Cheating is the act of kissing or having sex with the other person as long as you do not do that you are not cheating.
2006-07-23 09:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by caroleeberhardt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok....a guy ONLINE that you've NEVER MET is NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND....get over it.
Go for the one that lives closer....both of them are gonna break your heart, so you might as well let it be the one that lives close enough to SEE.
2006-07-23 09:58:34 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋