Why do you think my Ex-Fiance one day told me I don't love you anymore,i don't want to be with you anymore?
I mean I moved to Montana for god sakes!, got a2 jobs cause you don't make enougth money upther and she didn't want to lived with me in California And I had a good job here? I even help her sick dad? Please explain to all girls out there!
Why did she fell of inlove with me?
2006-07-23 09:46:56 · 24 answers · asked by werewolf2become 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who the hell knows? As harsh as it sounds, you gotta kinda look at it this way....
It's better that you found out now, rather than 10 or 15 years from now, when you guys have a marriage and kids and everything to deal with as well.
Just go on with your life. She has clearly put you aside, so you must do the same. Live and learn....good luck, and realize that not all girls are like her.
2006-07-23 09:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think, and you might not like this but she didnt ever love you. I think she might have cared about you,but love, no. I think the thrill has been gone for quite some time,ie.asking you to do things you was suppose to say no to. but you didnt and that kinda threw her off a little bit so she would come up with something else only you just wouldnt let go. she did not want to hurt your feelings or did not want to be the one responsible for ending the relationship, you know "what will people think of me "sort of thing. Also since she never loved you it was easy for her to be attracted to someone else. and someone else she has now and had before you guys brought up. in all fairness to this girl she may have thought she was in love with you at one time but found out she was'nt. Good news for you though, you didnt get to marry someone who would have made your life miserable and ultimately ended in divorce. What would that be like for the children ( if you don't have any already) yeah you have been given a reprive and now you can go out and in time find a woman who really love you and I mean really love you. How will you know it is not the same thing as before you ask? Well nothing is guarenteed but don't move too fast give the relationship time to grow and you will just know, and for goodness sake see the red flags for what they are 'RED FLAGS" don't convince yourself that what you feel isnt really hapening, beleive me when those RED FLAGS start a waving then its time for you to be a leaving.
2006-07-23 18:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I don't know. I'm sorry that happened to you. Is it possible you didn't treat her well? She agreed to marry you, so there must have been something there. Maybe she's just fickle and inconsistent. Maybe she found someone else and just dumped you. If that's the case, at least it's a good thing you didn't marry such a selfish person.
After reading the other answers, I agree "she used you to help her dad" sounds plausible. Maybe she didn't really love you. Sorry you must feel terrible right now, but please don't let this stop you from trusting again. Good hearted people attract thier own kind eventually.
2006-07-23 16:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that but.... sometimes things could be lacking in the a relationship. maybe it was the time you may not of been giving her or the love, or being romantic enough. Maybe she thinks you've changed. A lot of women like myself sometimes complain about how a guy may not being doing this right or whatever. and some are slient about it. You should confront her and ask what happened, and why? if you still love her try that out and try reigniting it.if she seems nonchelaunt about it she could've been using you, hate to say it. women can be very smart about things like that; we tend to look for opprotunities. i'm sure that you love her very much but if she seems uninterested in the relationship it may be time to call it quits. There's only so much we all can do for a relationship...just don't change who you are or your in big trouble well i mean if you did things more or was more romantic that's different but don't change you yourself or you'll be unhappy for sure and you won't know who she really loves...
2006-07-23 16:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by red head girl 06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there was a problem in the sex department of the relationship. You didn't mention anything about satisfying her needs. You talked about moving, jobs and her sick dad. So theres the problem right there, she fell in love with someone on the side that took the stress out of her life.
2006-07-23 16:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off,im sorry this happened to you. here are some possible explanations:
she is young, scared, and feels rushed
feels she hasnt dated enough people and is afraid she may meet someone later who she feels is more a "soulmate"
sad to say but maybe she has found someone else
best thing to do is back away, give her some time... if it's meant to be then things will work out. you may be hurt now but this could be your chance to meet the right person for you.
2006-07-23 16:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it's not because you're not industrious or devoted to her. So..what else could it be? I'm sure you really know the reason. It's something you did or said...and you know or have a very good idea what it may be. If she doesn't love you, mature and move on. It will be doing you both a favor.
2006-07-23 16:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear that. You did not do anything to cause it. It sounds like she is just very immature. Try to move on an find a woman will will appreciate you.
2006-07-23 17:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by keepingitreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm guessing that she did love you.and I'm not sure why she broke off the engagement.Most girls don't brake off engagements with out a reason.I think she was telling you that she doesn't love you any more cause she was hiding something.good luck
2006-07-23 16:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing the girl personaly I really cant answer that question.I dont know what your relationship was like with her. MAYBE-She is seeing someone else.I wish I can help you more.Im sorry
2006-07-23 16:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋