My fiance' is a truck driver not Over the Raod... he is home at 5 every evening. But last night he said he had to go to Raleigh to deliver a a load. Which he has never been away like that. Raleigh is about 5 hours away. I called him and his cell was off. I talked to him this morning and he said that his cell went dead. What really happened? He has been accusing me of cheating on him ALOT here lately. We have a 1 month old babyboy together. Im afraid if he thinks im cheating on him, that he willget it in his mind, "well she is doing it, so its okay for me to. Whats going on??
2006-07-23 09:36:18 · 6 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Mine is an over the road driver, I know that there are loads that get delayed, I know there are loads that get rescheduled. At this point give him the benefit of the doubt. His phone could have gone dead. (ever haver yours go dead and not realize it. mine has.)
Ask a friend or family member if they can watch your child for a few days and ask him if you can go for a ride for a few days just to get out of the house, and see part of the countryside as he does. Be good for both of you to take the time,and might help you both. Good luck...
2006-07-23 13:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by colleend01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. So you live in NC. Isn't that where Raleigh is, or is it SC? Either way, I am sure he had a charger for the phone. If he didn't have one, I could see him not calling. It happened once with my dh. But, since there's other factors going on, I would be highly suspicious.
There is a way to find out and I believe in doing just that. When we drivers get paid, we get a pay sheet that shows us the places we went. AND, his log book should also show him in Raleigh to unload etc. Have a look. If he did go there and you think he still may have cheated, then you need to either get in counseling with him or separate because there has to be healing at this point.
2006-07-24 08:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sueby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart... He's accusing you because he is doing it. It's classic. I'm sorry you are going through this especially after having a baby. Focus all your attention on your child. Your fiance is not worth the effort. Good luck to you and God Bless!
2006-07-23 09:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you did something to make him doubt you. Men are so sensitive and jealous if he feels that you're cheating on him he will shut down on you and lose faith in you. You have to be very careful and always be true and clear to him in your heart and try to listen to what he says.
If you love him and your child....
2006-07-23 09:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The guilty dog barks first.
2006-07-23 09:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by churppy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually the accuser is the one cheatin. don't assume yet but keep your eyes and ears open and watch him
2006-07-23 09:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋