I've a very low opinion of myself and find it hard to approach women, how do I become confident?
2006-07-23 09:33:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
practice standing up STRAIGHT. Good posture is important. Remember that women are people, just like men, and they appreciate and are impressed by a guy with good manners that looks like he's not a slob/slacker etc., and if you speak in a clear and friendly voice, they'll be more inclined to talk to you. Go talk to 2 strange women tomorrow, nothing heavy/crazy, just walk up and say hello, ask maybe a simple question, say 'have a good day' and leave. Do that sometime, just for fun...go to the mall, and ask about stuff that's for sale. Try to smile and be friendly when you talk, not freakishly so, just natural. If you're not good with a smile, look in the mirror when you're at home. If your teeth look funky, work on that. Wear decent clothes, be stand-up about who you are, talk clearly, and go talk to someone. It's that easy!
2006-07-23 09:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by gokart121 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
these things improve with age. im better now but i used to be so bad i wouldnt even talk on the phone, or even say my own name. it improves over time tho.
in the meantime see - www.becomeaplayer.com
tells you how to approach and confidence tips etc
good luck!
2006-07-23 09:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by the dogone dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure i was like that 4 a while then i dont know i went out more with friends and became more social. time i guess just get out there more itll happen eventually
2006-07-23 09:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by funlovingcaligurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be a little bit more open..go out w friends
2006-07-23 09:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by ROCKSTAR*CHICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋