There is a girl in the same university i go to who i've had a crush on for far too long, we are talking like 2 years and we have been only friends eversince and i bet she has no idea how i feel about her. In the mean time i don't know if she is seeing someone or not so you guys think it is a good idea to go and tell her how i feel about her or should i just keep it quiet?
2006-07-23 09:23:43 · 19 answers · asked by ¼ + ½ = ¾ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should tell her but honestly u have to think about it what if u get with her and yall break up u will mess up a really good friendship but she must know how you feel no matter what but to save the drama how about u wait a minute see how she feel about u see if she is showing signs and if not and u still want her to kno ask her in a joking matter do she like you and then tell her in a joking way like ion kno something like "have you ever had a crush on a friend of yours but u didn't know how to tell them" say soemthing like that unless she fgures it ot like aw you like me dont u but hey best of luck
2006-07-23 09:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
dont tell her you have a "crush" on her. that will only scare her away (images of stalking come to mind) just talk to her as a friend and ask her out. Tell her that you have interest in her (in your own words) and begin to share your feelings. start doing things together and allow your relationship to grow naturally
2006-07-23 16:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Linder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell her how you feel you will regret it. Missed oportunities sting deeper than the tiny hurt you'll feel if she rejects you. Approach her in a subtle way, try a pressure free group outing to feel her out.
2006-07-23 16:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by tela95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definitely let her know how you feel. If you don't, then you are cheating yourself. She may have similar feelings for you, or she may not be interested in you like that, but you'll never know if you don't ask. Good luck!
2006-07-23 16:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by absolutelyfab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would if you like her enough its worth the risk of finding out things will happen like theyre supposed to in the end
good luck dude
2006-07-23 16:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by nickolas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her, im not just saying it. but ubless shes dating someone wait. wait a little while after they break up tho to give her a break from guys.
2006-07-23 16:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by LoLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what it there 2 lose?
2006-07-23 16:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by cuteblacklabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slowly, this girl migt thing you are crazy if you blurt it out. drop hints such as in e-mail say "love alexi" or hold her hand. if she takes the hint, she will drop hints back. good luck:)
2006-07-23 16:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by disco_dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-23 16:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by rockability 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your heart feels that it is right that you tell her then do it!
2006-07-23 16:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by Keewani B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋