I do everything my man asks me to do. He takes and takes but when I ask him for something or to do something its no or does not get done.
2006-07-23 09:19:11 · 23 answers · asked by texashoneypot_25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
b/c you let him.
2006-07-23 09:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do. If he takes you for granted then its because you are letting that happen. Make him meet you in the middle. If he doesn't, there are plenty fish in the sea. Besides this world is over populated you should be able to find other men more worthy.
2006-07-23 09:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by D-man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving... seriously. A relationship is a one way street with both of you going with the flow of traffic, anything else can be a problem.
Now as for him saying no to things that you are asking, ask yourself if they are meaningful things. I know it may sound silly, but ask yourself if these are the type of things you would do yourself. For example, would you ask him to give you a massage if you don't do the same for him? I know it seems weird, but a lot of people I know won't do something simple like that because their S/O won't do it either.
2006-07-23 09:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by raymondchippa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got the WRONG man. If a man has any respect for a woman, he knows that a relationship is a two way street, take and give. One curiosity though, what are you giving, and what are you asking for in return?
2006-07-23 09:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know the entire situation, but I have a question. Do you take advantage of him as well? For example, do you assume that he had a good day at work? Do you assume he's OK when you see him? Do you tell him he is appreciated for what he does do for you. Do you build up his self esteem? Most of the guys I know will work twice as hard for their woman when the feel appreciated, even when they are dog tired. This may be part of the issue and it may not, but I thought you might want to think about that before you nag him (and I'm not saying you do).
2006-07-23 09:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 05:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by bugenhagen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we let them, time and time again. As much as I hate to say this (because I am so guilty of it) I believe that when we do this we are settling, we aren't demanding the respect we deserve. In fact there was a man in my life that said something to me that I can't stop thinking about, he said that he gives me more respect than I demand... hmmm makes you think.
2006-07-23 19:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has become lazy and disrespectful. He needs a wake up call and you should not pander to him anymore co he ain't going to get better thats for sure.
2006-07-23 09:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by crimson king 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
younger men don't realize how good the women in their life are to them........and you want him to know? stop it....and tell him when he complains, that when you appreciate me, and what I do, then you will get those things again........and stick to it.....if he dumps you.....then he was only in the relationship because you were this way
2006-07-23 09:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop doing for him. Your being a codependent and tying into his sickness. You need to gain some selfesteem and quit being so dependent on him. He would find you more attractive if you became secure and confident within yourself, he would see that you don't need him and I can guarantee he would want to do and do and do for you.
2006-07-23 09:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Men do not appreciate women. It is sad, and I wish I could make all men see.
See my question for a way we could help improve this situation:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al95x1VOo_La7DOPQzBKdtnsy6IX?qid=20060723124447AAoIjTh
2006-07-23 09:26:15 · answer #11 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋