What is expected of a man?

Question

I just read a question that asked ,"Should a man expect sex after buying a female dinner"? I don't think they should expect sex but at least a sincere thank you from the female letting him know she appreciates him. Some women feel as though they are the prize and men should be thankful they spend time with them. How often is this the case and do you think it is right?

Answer 1

Whether a woman or a man buying dinner, lunch, etc. a "thank you" is in order. Sex is not.

One should expect the following from a man or woman
* Respect for self
* Respect for person they are with
* Honest
* Manners
* Courtesy

Really quite simple, but sadly our society has lost that in this self centered me, me, me, me world. Sad.

Answer 2

i am a man.. and trust me.. all men expect sex no matter what dinner or what rennid, but if a man has some kind of brain he would not really care if u sleep with him or not... doesn't sleep with him does not mean u dun like him... in truth, it's better not sleep with a guy as all the girls that slept wif me at first date (1 even within 1 hour after first met), better to get to know each other more even when both side wants sex.

u know what.. coz rushing into sex usually do not end with a healthy relationship, and also, if u can sleep wif this guy few hours after u met him, u would do the same to another guy, how would that guy feel about u. if the guy is gonna reject u just coz u dun hav sex. then forget about it... but if u like the guy u should let him know.... we guys hate mind games that u girls love

Answer 3

Look, no man or woman deserves any thing for taking someone to dinner, sex is worth alto more than a couple cheeseburgers.No person is a prize.People always take others for granted.Women always put themselves on a pedestal.Cut it out.Women are no better then men and vise versa.That's like saying men are supposed to bring home the money, how ignorant.Women always say equal rights then you say something like women are a prize.people should be thankful for spending time together,that is...each person should be thankful.that's a relationship.Not,"this person can buy me a car and an expensive house".It always seems like" what can you do for me" and should be"what can I do for you or us".

Answer 4

If I take a girl out for dinner I dont' expect sex from her, I just expect company and good laughs. If I wanted sex from her then I would see if things were going any further in a dating relationship. But if he expects sex after dinner than he is just paying for sex basically. A simple thanks and hug is good enough. Shows more respect.

Answer 5

Well, expecting sex is going a bit too far, but I don't think it's too much to expect a little something in turn, even if it is just the lady picking up the check the next time they eat out.

Answer 6

I don't think sex should be expected on a first date, if it is then I would be wondering....I think a hug or kiss is nice but not expected either...you want to make sure the person you are going to have sex with is someone you really care about and feel chemistry with...but hey thats just my opinion....lol

Answer 7

Well, with some guys the only objective is to get into your pants. Some guys think they've bought their way when they give you gifts etc.

I think when you're with your date, the idea is to enjoy your time together, and if you decide to have sex, it's up to you...but expectations? Why be so stiff and formal about it? If you like each other, hang out and go do stuff...if you wanna be in bed together, go to it!

Answer 8

Sex should never be "expected". Only a pig expects nookie in exchange for a big mac....

i also think its wrong to act like a prize. I mean a girls poo stinks like anyone elses...so its not like its a 100% slice of heaven getting one either...lol

Answer 9

It terrible that's the case sometimes but then again it's women out there that do look for that after dinner.I never came across any like that
not yet any way.