I have been dating this guy for 4 months now, he has been to two BBQ's at mt parents home, met my son and intire family. Now here is the trouble. He has a female roommate, been divorced twice and has two children from him first marriage. I have never seen his place, or met his children. He only calls me when he is out running around, at work, or walking his roommates dog. He also always has to go home before 9pm, and he never will talk on the phone to anyone when I am around. So does anyone think I am crazy when I think that he is either married to his roommate or she is a live-in girlfriend?
2006-07-23 09:08:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is a live in gf. I have seen this happen three times and the guy was just keeping a open line so if he wanted to get some he could. If he liked you, he would call you no matter where he was, no matter what time, and he would have introduced you to his friends or family.
2006-07-23 09:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by D-man 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is something really fishey about this. I would find out where he lives or talk to some of his friends to see if they will tell all. If the roommate is a female I think you have to right to say I wanna go over to your place. If he doesn't give in then give him an ultimatum. You will never be satisfied with the relationship until you know the rest of his life.
2006-07-23 16:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by angel1485 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a pleasant diversion in his life, but most likely nothing serious for the future. Even if you factor out the woman he lives with and him cheating on someone, the fact that he's keeping you away from the more personal features of his life is a message (to me anyway) that you do not fit into his plans in that 'more personal and lasting' manner. You are more like the 'other' woman.
2006-07-23 16:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its possible he is involved with his roomie. If you know where he lives, you should pop in there and have a little chat with his roomate. Better find out now, before you are too much more involved, and your son and family accept him and get hurt too.
You should maybe be more direct with him and ask him the truth.
2006-07-23 16:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by renie51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but sounds like roommate=wife! you can check with your local county if he is married. those are open records, nothing wrong with checking, besides now a days, you just never know, unfortunately we are many times forced to do these things.
2006-07-23 16:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lorena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You are not crazy to think that. You are CRAZY to be with this airhead. Why do women whine about the way men are when you are the one who chose the LOSER? I personally think men are awesome and always at their best, when you don't let them take advantage of you like this.
2006-07-23 16:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why continue wondering, pay him a surprise visit. That should solve your curiosity! He doesnt sound like a complete winner to me.
2006-07-23 16:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I would say he is married or she is a live ib GF,,,But if you need a single man check me out!
2006-07-23 16:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by rad64us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know it is going to feel allittle weird but just ask him . I think he will respect the fact that u want to know what going on with her and him.
2006-07-23 16:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by kmmswimma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell by the way you worded your question, you already know the anwer, but are having trouble accepting it.
2006-07-23 16:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by notquitesure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋