if you started to get strong feelings for someone that has a boyfriend and 2 kids from a previous boyfriend. she lives with this guy and been with him for about 2 years but there not married and dont have kids, is it a bad idea to tell her how you feel which could break up their relationship, if she has the same feelings. i would not ask or even think this if they were his kids or if they were married..
2006-07-23 09:02:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i fergot to say that a was dating her over 7 years ago, and then i moved away, then she met some guy and had 2 kids with then i moved back then she moved away for a for a few years. then i got married and have 2 kids of my own but my marrige is falling apart cause now my wife dosnt think she really wants to be married ever.
2006-07-23 09:24:42 · update #1
Either she's happy in a relationship or she isn't. Nothing you can say or do will change that. Think about it and use common sense. Do you really think a woman who is happily in love with her man will just decide not to love him anymore because some guy told her he is attracted to her?
If she's not happy with him, you tell her how you feel, and she feels the same way, you'll be doing everyone involved a favor in the long run, including the other man. She is not doing him any favors by keeping him in an unhappy relationship.
So I would say there is only one way to find out which one of these scenarios you're dealing with.
2006-07-23 09:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave well enough alone. if she is not happy where she is, then allow her to end it on her own terms. don't be the reason she walks out of the current relationship. besides, if she doesn't feel the same way, and you do express your feelings, you might as well kiss your friendship with her goodbye...not to mention that you better be watching over your shoulder for the guy she is with...
2006-07-23 16:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone dude. if anything think about her kids, if you all start going thru some kinda drama - guess what? they will be going thru it as well, we all know it's always harder on the little inocent ones. So, be a man and walk away from this one. It's the right thing to do, and in Karma - the "right" one will find you!
2006-07-23 16:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rock N Roll Saved My Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would not like a woman that is not married and with kids... i mean there is billions of protections around, even abortsions... if a girl really likes kids then she should settle down with the Mr. Right and have a kid, if that girl likes kids and has the will to commit to that kid why not the kid's father ?
2006-07-23 16:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by DOHC VTEC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to her and tell her that you are interested and ask her how serious she is about this other guy, but if she stays with him, consider this a boundary that you shouldn't cross. If she will stay with one guy and entertain thoughts of being with another, she would then be no great prize, anyway.
2006-07-23 16:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a great catch. Wait til she has 3 more kids with two other guys, then snap her up.
2006-07-23 16:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by I-Eat-Paint-Chips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sure of your feelings for her, you should definetley tell her or you'll always wonder of what could have been. If she doesn't feel the same way twoards you then you should back off.
2006-07-23 16:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by J-Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else, although i would be flattered that another man found me attractive and wanted me, i would still stay with my man of 2 years who loves and helps me raise my children
2006-07-23 16:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably dosnt like u if she has a boyfriend....if u tell her, u'll mess up the friendship
2006-07-23 16:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by lax4life0022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't ask. It's better to move on if you can't get her
2006-07-23 16:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋