have you ever had an abortion and then after you did it?

Question

you wanted a baby right after, you realize it was a mistake?
what did you do
and no nasty remarks please

me and my boyfriend wanted the baby and were trying before this happened no luck, then i slept with his friend out of spite he was accusing me before i did anything
his friend took the condom off w/out telling me and then 2 weeks later i found out i was prego, i didnt want to do it but where would i go if i kept it and no adoption was out of the question , im adopted and it really ***** your mind up

no i never got preg again after the abortion, but were trying to , we only got the abortion in fact that it might have been the other guy

Answer 1

There's really not much you can do. You can't reverse an abortion. If you're having problems and struggling with being able to cope with your decision, find a support group or seek out counseling.

Answer 2

When i was 16 i had to have an abortion it was the worst mistake of my life i wish i would of ran away and gave the baby up i thin about it almost everyday and have bad feelings towards my mother for maken me have one and since now i am older and been trying for a baby for 4 yrs now it is really hard cause i think back and wonder if the abortion screwed me up or somthing its a hard thing to live with that why now when ever someone close to me get preg. i try to talk to them out of abortions if they want one given the baby up is a better way

Answer 3

First off, you shouldn't be trying to get pregnant without being married. If you think being adopted messes you up, try explaining to your child that you and their daddy aren't together anymore because he found someone who wasn't fat and disgusting with a baby in her belly. Secondly, sleeping with his best friend is probably the worst thing you could have done. If I were him I wouldn't worry about you getting pregnant, I be wondering if I should bury your body in my basement or in the woods somewhere. Does this qualify as a nasty remark? Also, think about this one...if you and your boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant and nothing happens...and you bang some other guy once and get pregnant...maybe your boyfriend is shooting blanks. Also...make sure he's putting it in the right place. There's no such thing as an oral or anal pregnancy.

Answer 4

I haven't ever had an abortion, but this sounds like something you need to come to terms with inside yourself.

When I have done something that i wish I could go back and change, I remember where i was at the moment of decision, and I respect that I was in that particular place.

This isn't your only chance to have a baby.

Answer 5

you are saying here, you had an abortion and then got pregnant again?
myself, i couldnt have gone through a second abortion. the first one was tramatic enough. but when I did have the first abortion, the lady did say that girls keep coming back having more of them. I dont know; how but they do.
so its up to you, really, if you want to go through that again. but me personally, I couldnt.
I would have this 2nd child anyway. or give it up for adoption.

Answer 6

Never had an abortion, never will. Had a miscarriage and I wanted that baby. I had to go to counseling to recover. Did you think about it before, I mean wanting the baby before you had the abortion or did you just think you wanted it when it was too late?

Answer 7

Having another baby will not replace the baby you killed or erase the fact of what you have done. Although you cannot go back and undo the abortion now, it will help you to face the facts about your actions. Please see:

Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm

Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Then, please visit http://www.healinghearts.org for free post-abortion counseling and a free post-abortion online study. Almost all of their counselors have aborted babies themselves, and they can help.

Answer 8

i never have personally. but my ex best friend had one because she was sure she was no tready for a baby. then less than 6 months later she got pregnant. she claims she was afraid that since she had an abortion that she wouldnt be able to have kids.. thought it may be hetr only chance....
i think it depends on the person...

Answer 9

here where I live we have crisis pregnancy centers and you go and do classes on how to cope with the decision that you made..the classes are very helpfull and informative....if you dont have crisis pregnancy centers try asking your doctor about a Post abortion class you could attend...