2006-07-23 08:55:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As horrible as this sounds, you will get on with your life, and look at it this way, it is better for it to happen NOW than 10 years from now, when you have even more time invested into the relationship.
All I can say is that KARMA IS A *****, and everything comes full circle. Don't worry about paybacks or revenge, because they just make you look like the little person.
Move on with your life...do something you always wanted to do that this person never wanted to do....unless it is illegal or self damaging.
Talk to someone...get your feelings out in the open, and REMEMBER...life is too short to waste!
2006-07-23 08:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break-ups are hard especially if she left you and you still love her. All I have to say is give it sometime for your heart to heal. Find things that you love doing (or used to love doing and gave up when you met her) and keep yourself busy. Suround yourself with people but also find time to reflect back on what went wrong to take lessons from that past relationship and slowly let it go.
Think of it this way. Relationship just like life we can't control. We cannot control the other persons action (or heart) so the only thing we can do is try to move on and keep all the good stuff in memories and learn from the bad and learn to love again and this has no time stamp. It depends on the intensity of your love for her.
2006-07-23 09:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Pudge_Monsta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on you. If you sit around and sulk, it will probably take longer than if you get out and start enjoying life. You may still hurt, but at least you won't be thinking about her 24/7.
2006-07-23 08:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years! maybe 2 1/2
2006-07-23 09:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. It was 5 months ago. I still think about her all the time, even though I tried to date other girls. Good luck.
2006-07-23 08:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time but you will find someone that will make you happy later in life so try to move on don't just set there .
2006-07-23 09:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're always only 1 revenge lay away from happiness.
2006-07-23 08:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take time but spend time with friends and family and do things you like and you will feel much better after getting them off of your mind
2006-07-23 08:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by superdc692004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 day or a couple of ours if you got to a club and fine another girl!
2006-07-23 09:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by werewolf2become 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the exes are always on the mind. just relize that this change if for your better
2006-07-23 08:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by rey in mexico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋