Our third month is coming up, should i give him anything??
2006-07-23 08:38:59 · 31 answers · asked by that_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After only 3 months, I'd be careful. If he has given you gifts before and you're already close, this could be a good idea. I wouldn't give him anything that is sentimental yet like jewelry or anything that could potentially scare him off by your appearing too serious too soon. I wouldn't call it a 3 month anniversary, depending on the guy - he could start feeling pressured to be more serious than he's ready for. Bake him a cake just because, if he's not recognizing your 3 month anniversary yet - it's probably not good timing to recognize it to him. Good gift selections would be a new cap or shirt with his favorite sports team, or a music CD. Keep it light and help him to feel free and not pressured at all by your gift. If he asks why you got it for him, just say you were thinking about him and thought he would like it. On the other hand, if he's already taking you out for a date to specifically celebrate the occasion, the timing could be right for a more special gift, but I don't have enough details to know that for sure.
2006-07-23 08:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey! is your name Danielle by the way?!!!lol it's just that i was seriously going to go and ask the same exact question because me and my bf's third month anniversary is coming up July 28. When is yours? At first I was going to get my bf a gift but the bad thing is, girls usually think of things like month anniversaries as a big deal(i know i do) but guys usually aren't as thoughtful(not saying ours aren't...) So i thought it would be totally embarrasing to get a gift for him and him not remember or not get one for me because it wasn't that big of a deal for him. So what i would like to do and what i think is a good deal is to go out for dinner or something and just split it 50-50 or something. Then maybe go for romantic walk and tell the person how much you like them....at least that's my dream for our anniversary!lol Well, hope you have an awesome anniversary and hope you figure out something cool to do for it!
2006-07-23 08:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get him a gift most likely he'll say what for??? and that's going to mack him feel bad for not getting you a gift and then that's going to be a sticky situation if you wanna give him a gift why not for his b-day or for a holiday no way for 3 months (maybe if you wanna make sure he's not getting anything ask his best friend they would know )
2006-07-23 08:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by oh_my_sock_monkeys_1993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because it's only the third month, not year. Seriously, if you do give him anything, make sure you don't spend more than 10 bucks. Who knows, it could be splitsville by month 4
2006-07-23 08:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by jasmicsgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONE THING I CAN SAY, IF YOU GIVE HIM ANYTHING MAKE SURE THAT YOU GIVE IT TO HIM FROM THE HEART. DO NOT REGRET GIVING HIM ANYTHING AFTER YOU TWO BREAK UP. IF I WOULD GIVE HIM ANYTHING IT WOULD SOME ENCOURAGING WORDS IN A CARD. I WOULD NOT SPEND TO MUCH MONEY ON A GIFT. YOU CAN TELL HIM HOW MUCH YOU ARE ENJOYING SPENDING TIME WITH HIM AND HAVING HIM PART OF YOU IN YOUR LIFE AND YOU HOPE THINGS WILL CONTINUE TO GO WELL WITH YOU TWO.
2006-07-23 08:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been a "month anniversary" person. I give gifts when I want for whatever reason I want.
2006-07-23 08:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
It's an anniversary--once a year.
Celebrating each month takes the thrill out of the anniversary.
"It's our 3 month anniversary!"
No...you've been dating for three months.
You don't have to get him anything. Save it for the one year anniversary as it was meant to be celebrated.
2006-07-23 08:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say get him something guys like... a CD he wants or something but keep it hidden until he gives you something so you won't embarrass him or scare him off if he didn't get anything for you, and if he didn't, then give it to him later if ya want, or return it.... hope this helps... but yes, I think it's ok if it isn't filled with pressure and if it's something you want to do.
2006-07-23 08:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try waiting for a 1 year hun giving gifts for beign togther in my opioion is wrong after you get married save them for that special time or holiday or anniversary but not until then unless a birthday or such
2006-07-23 08:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by serenity0795 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...not unless he starts a tradition like that. Might make you look a bit desperate or clingy. Take new relationships slow so you don't scare them off. You know how guys can get when they think you're getting too serious about them.
2006-07-23 08:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋