HELP...I made a stupid mistake ,and now i am pregnant at 13.?

Question

If my parents find out they will send me away.I found a Abortion clinic that will take me without my parents consent.
I am soo scared ,My Grandmother died giving birth to my mother,my mother almost died giving birtH to me,she had 147 blood tran fusions,she hemridged almost to death my doctor told me it's very dangerous for me to have children.
I have two things aganst me,my parents and risk to my life.
WHAT SHOULD I DO??????.........HELP ANY ADVICE TOMORROW IS MY APPOINTMENT FOR MY ABORTION...should i go ?
I will never make this stupid mistake ever again!!

Answer 1

obviously have an abortion. either you die or your parents kill you by having a baby.... AT 13!!!! abortion

Answer 2

Now is the time for you to get right with your parents and quit playing adult at 13 years of age. It does not take a lot of brains to open your legs and get impregnated but it takes a lot of brains to care for a baby when you are still a baby yourself. You better get your parents involved like yesterday if there is any hope for you. if you found a clinic to give you an abortion at 13 without parental consent then they use coat hangers not proper medical procedures and you may be ruined for life afterwords.
I don't pass judgment on birthing babies or not but common sense will tell you to stop lying and start telling the truth.

OH BY THE WAY!! You seem to have a problem remembering the lies you told earlier because before you gave a date of birth that would make you 20 something and now you have cancer and are pregnant at 13. Make up your mind Which lie you are going to use OK?

Answer 3

First calm down..take a deep breath you can handle this! Just so you know giving birth nowadays is alot alot....safer. They can do a lot for a person and an unborn child. Ultrasounds, monitors etc. High risk pregnancies happen and specialized doctors can help you. You need to ask the clinic for some counseling if the decision you've made is making you nervous. They offer assistance not just for abortion but other things too.
The decision is ultimately yours. I wish I had more advice...I noticed your other questions were about a 19 year old...is he the father? anyways

i'll be thinking about you

Answer 4

Don't have an abortion, because you will deeply regret it when you get older. Just because you weren't careful, why should you take the life of a child? People don't realize that this baby's heart is beating, it has a soul, but they murder the baby because of something they did. It's ridiculous. Only God has the right to choose who should live and who should die. Imagine, you'll be so happy when you have the baby, you'll forget why you even wanted an abortion.... You have the choice to do what you want with your body, but that baby is not your body, it has it's own. It comes from you, but it's not you. Abortion is just legalized murder, honey, no matter how people try to change it. Don't be a killer, harsh as that sounds. Really think about what I am saying, okay? Email me if you have any thoughts...

Answer 5

I am 21 and pregnant with my second child.

1) I don't believe in abortion for my self, never was an option.
2) Get an abortion and just C it as being a medical reason.
3) How do you have a appointment for a abortion if your parents don't know? And if they know they would send you away!
4) Something don't make sense, come clean!

Answer 6

It seems as if abortion is the best solution. I feel very badly for you. At your age, you should be still having fun, concentrating on school, friends, light-hearted things. Instead you are facing a very tough emotional dilemma. Maybe you need to think about why you felt the need to have sex at such a young age. As you now know, the consequences can be very serious! Every action has consequences. Sex should be engaged in only when a person is mature enough to deal with the possiblity of pregnancy. You need to get on with your life and perhaps get some counseling. I understood your fear. I think you already know the answer to your question. Be strong. You will get through this.

Answer 7

Remember Its better to Tell your parents and have them hear it from the Doctor that having that baby is live threatening, And It is against the law for a minor to have an abortion with out their parents consent, So think about it they are breaking the law What makes you think they wont break it again while they preform the operation or what ever they do. People have died afterward because of infections and other preventable measure

Answer 8

If your life is at risk then you should have an abortion, no question. Does the father know that you are pregnant? You should talk to him about it and see what all he is willing to do. If he is mature enough to care talk to both of your parents together and so they will be less likely to go crazy. Listen to what they have to say. Maybe they will just go easier on you since you took the initiative to tell them as a couple which is more responsible. Maybe, if your health allows it, see if you can just put the baby up for adoption later.

Answer 9

You need to seek counseling. This is a huge decision you need to make and you certainly shouldn't be making it alone, or with the advice of us goofy people out here on Yahoo!. Most abortion clinics offer counseling (which yours should have right from the onset), and most states will offer you free medical services, as well. I realize that with you being a minor, you have limited options, but that's why you need to get back to that same clinic and talk with their counselor. The very fact that you're asking this question shows that you're not certain you've made the right choice.
You're life isn't over. You just need guidance-please go get it.

Answer 10

I feel for u hunny.
Firstly i think u should realise that ur parents will love u no-matter what.
Talk to a close friend of the family who will not tell ur parents although i think u should cuz the truth will come out in the end and they will feel even more hurt cuz u lied to them.
Then ask yourself do u want a baby?
Can u support a baby?
I know u have a critical condition but maybe ur mum can help u there.
Good luck and let me know how u get on.
Best wishes
XX

Answer 11

13 years old, is to young to have a baby, it is not glamious, sexy, or even fun. You have not even lived your life. Your dreams, hopes, and plans for your future will be put on hold for years. Some say having a child is a blessing but when you are not ready, a child could be your hold back. Talk to someone you trust and really think about if you want this abortion, Sex is fun when your protected. Next time use protection and remember your body is a castle so protect it.