I've barely began dating my boyfriend for a month. We both were coming from big relationships that recently ended. Mine ended badly while his ended suddenly without warning. We were taking it slow and it seemed to be going very well. We already started to have sex but our relationship wasn't based on that. It was more of an occasional thing. (We're both adults, mind you.) Last night he called me up and said that he didn't think he was ready to be in another serious relationship, but he still felt that he was falling in love with me. We broke up, but he said that maybe he'll feel better a little bit further down the line. I think that's unfair. I really was starting to fall for him and part of me wants to wait for the hope of being with him again. Another part of me thinks this is just cowardly bull and that he may still have feelings for his ex. I don't plan to go straight to the next guy, but I don't know if I should wait specifically for him.
2006-07-23 08:34:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have more self esteem than that. What should I do?
2006-07-23 08:34:57 · update #1
The thing is that he is the most respectful and good man I've ever been with.
2006-07-23 08:41:07 · update #2
If I were you, I would not wait. Your life is to precious to be sitting around waiting for someone to return. In some cases he may not return and guess what your life would be wasted. This could have been time spent with someone else. Men comes and go and it seems as if he knew what he wanted from the beginning and wanted to tag you along but that's not fair. Dont worry there is a man for every woman and maybe this man is not yours and if it is then he would be. Next time dont rush into a relationship. Take it slowly and dont put too many eggs in one basket. Good luck. One more thing, seek God first at whatever you do. Pray and ask God for the right thing to do.
2006-07-23 08:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel if the guy breaks up with you that maybe he's not really into you ! Or maybe he can't really make a lasting relationship with anyone. Either case I wouldn't hold my breath waiting. Move on at your own pace and see what the future brings. I feel everything happens for a reason and maybe Mr. Right is yet to come !
Ronbo
2006-07-23 10:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by ronbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the opportunity comes where you can start seeing someone else, I would do it. After all, it is not a relationship if the two of you are broken up. What he did was immature, childish and just totally unfair to you.
2006-07-23 08:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cool and know there is alot of respectful men out there trust me! you seem strong and a little sensitive but thats ok
be happy and know you deserve the best
2006-07-27 15:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find someone better that will treat you with respect.
2006-07-23 08:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by suburban145 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u need more time
2006-07-23 08:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋